A freaky weird friend! What should i do?
By Unknown
@vertex (803)
Philippines
February 10, 2007 7:21am CST
Yesterday we were so happy watching a presentation of cultural dances. All our friends was there including our weird friend. After the show we are going outside to go home but we havent seen our weird friend so we waited for him but he was already left us. After a couple of minutes waiting we decided to go but when we reach the gate we say him burning with anger and he just pulled his umbrella and throw it to us. We were so shock because he was also throwing his things. Then he just leaved. We were really afraid of what might happen. Our energies were drained so we decided to eat. Today we met him and we didnt talk to him but suddenly he was talking to us about what happen yesterday and he explain everything and we also explained our side and then he ask sorry for what he done because he knows that he was wrong. What should we do should we forgive him or let him suffer what he has done to us?
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5 responses
@SplitZip (1488)
• Portugal
10 Feb 07
Yes, but the fact that you call him weird, maybe he exploded because he thinks you don't like him or don't respect him? Some people are sensitive about things like being left behind or being forgotten. If you actually like your "weird friend", then I'd try to forget the incident and treat him nicely from now on. If not (if you don't like him), maybe it's best not to lead him on in thinking that you're friends?
@trouble4u2avoid (2915)
• United States
13 Feb 07
Did he give any explaination why he acted the way he did? Maybe he really hated the performance and had to vent. I would ask him what the heck happened and than decide whether or not I should for give him. Good luck and watch out for flying umbrellas!
@WebMann (4731)
• Canada
10 Feb 07
That's a tough one but I think I would forgive him. I have a friend that has a few mental issues and there are things we over look that others might just end the friendship over, but we know what she is like and we adjust around that. :)
@cyndhirella (549)
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
Hey, friends by definition accepts you for who you are and what you are.
Accept his apology. The mere fact that he lowers his pride just to ask an apology is enough reason to forgive him. Just try to understand him and be sensitive of what he feels. Dont call yourself a friend if you dont want to understand him in the first place.
You wont loose anything when you forgive him, right? you even gain a good points for your soul.
