how to say no to friends??
By shadow09
@shadow09 (5)
Germany
February 11, 2007 12:43am CST
those persons with whom u r very close u can say anything directly and honestly. but what about those with whom u have .......say an intermediate kind of relation. say u r not that close but value ur relationship with them and dont want to endanger it. how do u say no to them? how do u tell them that u dont like somthing abt them and wud prefer if they didnt do it?i have been in such a fix for sometime now.
please help!!!!
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4 responses
@divir_vij (1591)
• India
11 Feb 07
open your mouth a little and gather your courage and by synchronizing your tongue lips and voice say "NO"
@shadow09 (5)
• Germany
11 Feb 07
well i open my mouth,then do the mistake of thinking nd thus never reach to synchronizing my tongue lips.but mayb u r right.u jst gotta say it sometimes.i just keep on feeling that mayb its not so serious this time.the next time will be the last.the next time as usual nvr comes!!!
@klystron635 (1519)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
It's really hard to say "no" to a friend or even in a person that is starting to be your friend. But usually there are times that you really have to say no to them because of more important issues. What I do in this kind of situation is that I tell them directly that I can't. Then I have this urge to explain them why I said no. Then after our conversation I'd tell my friend that hopefully he/she understands my point.
@marjonelle (798)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
If you are a true friend, you'll be frank to him. You will not pretend that you like but actually not. Be yourself. For sure he will understand you because yor are friends.
