What would you change?

Kaylee - My 11 month old daughter
United States
February 11, 2007 8:00am CST
If you could change one thing in your life, what would it be?I personally would have waited a little longer to have children. Don't get me wrong, I love her with all my heart and soul. She's my life. She WAS planned, but I wish that I would have been able to have a little more alone time with my husband. Now it's hard to concentrate on just him because all of our focus is on our daughter. I'm also a 21 year old mother. Most women my age are going out every night, partying, and staying out with friends. All while I'm trying to get my daughter to sleep. But like I said, I love her and the sacrifices have been totally worth it!
3 responses
• United States
12 Feb 07
i've thought about this a lot in my life. i've taken a lot of paths that were definately not the easiest way to go. however, if i were to change what i did, then i wouldn't have gone where i did and i might be where i am now. i love where i am now. i the husband i have and the life i lead. i know the lessons that i learned are valuable ones that have helpes shape the woman that i am today. without those lessons, i don't believe that i would like myself as much now, or even allow someone like my husband to love me as he does.
• United States
11 Feb 07
I also had my first child when I was 21. But the one thing I would change was waiting so long to have had my 2nd child. I had my 2nd child when my son was 5. I wish I could of given him a sibling closer to his age. My 3rd child is exactly 2 years younger than my 2nd. I love them being so close in age.
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
I will change the country where I belong now. If this is not possible. I will change our history and let U.S continue their occupation here and become one of the states of America.