February 11, 2007 9:42am CST
I m a married person. But i think to get married has 2sides. One is good and the other one is bad, little bit. When i was single i was free to have time with my friends, there was no one to ask me any question. But now these dayz my wife always bother me asking questions. If any friend (girl)calls me my wife get tensed. She thought i would be hooked up. For that resons my life getting hell. I have lots of friends (Girl), as a friend any one can call me to have some time with me. I think i can't make u guys understand what i actually want to say. But i hope u guys can understand, any ways. If u guys agry with me then we can have a discuss.
12 Feb 07
you're right about getting married has 2 sides. but your wife should trust you. have a heart to heart talk with your wife. tell her to trust you. introduce your female friends to her so she won't suspect you're doing something fishy. i've done that to my husband. i was the 1st one who opened the issue to my husband. i told him to introduce his female friends to me so i wouldn't pick a fight. & he did. i trust my husband so much. let her feel your undying love for her. express it. maybe she's just jealous coz you give so much time to your friends. just understand her feelings. we, women tend to feel insecure as we age.
12 Feb 07
I liked you r response. Really i liked what ever u write here. Thank u. But mrs...? i have no any worst plan with my girl friends. I always honest to my wife. Yes she trusts me. But not only she but also every girl wants to have their husbands with her in her every moment. You tell me is it possible to us??? I m doing a job at media. I m cameraman. So i just know when i have to leave house for my office. But i dunno when i'll be back. But my wife thinks that my work ended at 6'o' clock. And the left of the time i pass with my friends. I tooked her to my office one time. She went. She believe that. But her believe was for a few dayz. Now she is as she was. Ok i'll follow ur advice. I'll bring all of my friends to my home and have an introduce with my wife. Thanx a lot to response me.