Do u believe in love at 1st sight?

Philippines
February 11, 2007 10:50am CST
Do love at first sight really exist? Or should i say like at first sight? I guess there's a big differemnce between the two.
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22 responses
@braided (698)
• Canada
11 Feb 07
I believe in Lust at first sight ... or attraction ... animal attraction ..... you dont know its love until you find out who that person is ... and if you can in fact love them .... I cant love someone I dont like ... can you? I mean you may like how they look and they physically turn you on cause they look so good but wait til they open there mouth and see what comes out .... so many "guys" are turned on visually and they think they are in love because she looks good and arouses him ... but thats not love ... as important as that factor is .... its not the only factor...
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
I agree with you.love takes time to develop
• India
11 Feb 07
everybody likes a baby at first sight, but nobody bothers to go behind the baby and try seeing her the next time, it goes only when people are attracted by their beauty, people call it LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT......... crazy people
@brimia (6581)
• United States
11 Feb 07
I believe in like or lust at first sight but not love. Love is something that develops over time.
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
I agree. I really don't believe in "love" at first sight. It's just plainly attraction. Later in time when you get to know the person, it's either you won't like his/her attitude or you would then that's wen you'll develop love. haha so corny.
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
Yeah right... love means accepting a person as a whole. How could you accept someone fully during the first meeting? How would you know what to accept, in the first place.
@wm69love88 (3466)
• China
11 Feb 07
love - People will also like the romantic love.
yes,i believe in love at first sight.That sounds so romantic!People will also like the romantic love.That is the essence of true love.
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
I bet youre a romantic person... keep the faith. =)
@bmjut247 (171)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
nope i don't believe in love at first site. i have to argue with that statement. if by love we mean that we care and harbor compassion towards a person, then how can you care and express compassion to someone you have just met without ever knowing anything about the person? anyhow, everything is relative.
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
I agree, maybe the word love is being misuse. But in some cases "they" say love at first sight exist...
• United States
11 Feb 07
I believe that two souls can recognize one another instantly and feel immenseley attracted from then on. My husband told me on our first date that he knew he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. We're still here, 15 years later.
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
Wow! Not all have the luck. =)
• Philippines
6 Jul 07
I believe it's not a love at first sight..it's kind of like at first sight. You cannot love a guy or a girl in just one meeting. You have to know her/him better everyday in order for you to love her/him. :)
@soulist (2985)
• United States
4 Jul 07
I think you can be attracted to a person at first sight, but not love. Love needs to grow and be nurtured. I don't think it happens in an instant.
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
5 Jul 07
I don't belive in love at first sight....!! Really..no belive..!! I feel its the word for "desperate people". Cause what I belive is I'll love him with whom I'll feel a sense of belongigness...the one who will make me feel that I belong to him..!! And for this you need lots of years and time. So Love at first sight is not possible in my case..!! But no one knows .... love is just a magic. You never know when it happens ..at first sight or anything else..!! Some times it takes years to understand that your in love and in some cases it only takes a glimpse of that person to find it out that your in love with him... that is known as first sight..!! So you never know...!! But still I just don't belive in love at first sight ....But you never go and love someone ..love just happens..!! You have no rule over that. :) Fall in love..!!
@coolcat123 (4387)
• India
5 Jul 07
Being attracted to someone is not love. You have to get to know a person before you can say you are truly in love with them. You can't honestly say that you are in love with someone based only upon their looks. ya,like may be possible but the best word is attraction.....yes like and love have big differences.
• United States
5 Jul 07
If by love you mean lust or attraction, then yes. But, no...not love at first sight. You can't love someone you don't know and you don't know someone at first sight. It takes awhile to get to know them. You can have an attraction or lust after them, though.
@sahar88 (250)
• Egypt
6 Jul 07
yes i believe in it.......but i don't try:)
• United States
5 Jul 07
I think humans confuse love with other things like lust or desire. Love is a feeling that takes time to develop and grow - getting deeper as you gain more knowledge of one and other. I guess I am telling you that I don't believe in love at first sight. I do believe you can like someone at first sight as we all make impressions about people rather quickly (less than 30 seconds)... and then judge whether or not we will like that person in a short amount of time - kind of scary isn't it?
@tombiz (2036)
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
I believe that love/like at first sight is possible. It happened to me before when I meet someone whom I instantly attractied to. Though love is better developed gradually, there are some people who are blessed with instant bonding and personality attraction to each other. Whatever way it is, love is definitely one of the strongest force we humans could have ever wielded and experienced. The whole world is going around because of love. I hope we could realized to make love not war.
@wooitsmolly (3613)
• United States
5 Jul 07
I believe in attraction at first site, but not love, or even like. I don't think you can like someone without talking to them and at that point it's not really "first sight" anymore, right? Love is something that has to develop over time. It's sort of like.. when you see someone (at a party or something) and think they're cute so you start thinking about how funny, nice, etc you think they seem. Then when you finally talk to them they turn out to be annoying and you don't find them cute anymore. That's why I think you need to talk to someone before you like/love them.
• India
11 Feb 07
I dont belive we will fall in love at first sight. But boys at the age of 14 or 15 will be in this case. Those who arevery matured wont fall in love at first sight.
• Nigeria
11 Feb 07
I think there is nothing like love at first sight because love is beyond just physical appearance and attraction. Love is a thing that grows and that demands a lot of understanding. All these cannot come about in the first instance you are meeting a person. Love develops more as you know more about the other person. I think like at first sight is a better option than love at first sight.
@mcaf1970 (140)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
yes, it has differences. love at first sight do exist for some, not to all. & usually the relationship doesn't last that long. like at first sight maybe. it depends if at first, he showed his real attitude. like has sense of humor, generosity, with low profile etc.
• India
11 Feb 07
there is not a big difference between the two .. like is a beginning to love ...
• India
11 Feb 07
At first sight u like the person by How they are, but when you move with then if the person is good then you fall in love with the person for what they are............. further clarification mail me
• Brazil
11 Feb 07
i belive in love at first sigth!