what would u feel.....

Do one thing: Ignore him. When I was reading the first part of your discussion I thought he had been bugging you to take him back, but I found out otherwise. This person, who shows absolutely no respect for you as a person and woman, does not deserve any forgiveness, much more attention. He's just angry because his ego has been hurt when you dumped him. You said you've been telling him to stop sending you messages. How do you tell him that? Do you reply with "DNT TXT ME ANYMORE?" Don't. Don't reply. Don't even read the message, just erase it right away. If it upsets you so much then change your number. It's so easy to do that nowadays.

You change number so he wont be able to text you again. You have suffered too much and it is time that you look for someone who will truly love you. Always believe in love, being hurt while loving is part of it but moving on and on and on will make you overcome the pain and earned the wisdom of true a true loving person. Good luck.

i suggest you give your heart a break from relationships for awhile. you had been with a guy who emotionally hurt you. and that's so sad. you don't deserve that. noone deserves to be hurt that way. he should have respected you instead and loved you more when he had his chance. you're crying? that's just natural. go on with crying until you feel better. crying helps a lot. so don't be shy to cry. give your heart a break, let the pain heal. if love breaks, love heals as well. so go on with your life but don't close your doors to hope that one day you might find someone who will love you unconditionally. be on guard all the time but don't lose hope.

well I think he love u so much.

hi there, just get rid of him and have no contact with him, also change your number as it would make alot of sense in order for him to not text you, he sounds like a cruel person but don't worry there is some nice men out there, you just have to wait till the right one comes along! :O)

awwww my gosh... thats horrible. first of all, girl, he is NOT worth the tears. just remember that. and "love is patient, love is kind...1 corinthians 13:4) " So He positively is not love... you just fell into a wrong relationship. dont let this guy ruin LOVE for you. its a beautiful thing if you meet the right guy.

Don't let one bad man spoil the entire gender! There are lots of good ones out there, and I am sure one day you will find someone perfect for you. In the meantime, I agree with everyone else. Change your cell #, and no matter what, do not have ANY contact with this guy. Even saying hello to him even once will just make him think that he can get you back and take you for granted all over again. Good Luck!

oh how dare he!!!! now this type of people dont even desereve to live! well just change ur cell number and please try to get as far as possible fromm this a**hole

he is mentally abuseing use.dont answer his text an get a new phone number.i would also tell the police he is harrassing you an get a restraining order against him.dont take the mental abuse. keep far away from him an dont let him use you.find you someone else that will respect you.

Change your phone numbers and avoid him. Ignore him and do not respond to anything he says to you.

Don't worry my dear marize, He won't hurt you for a long time. The story itself tells that your's is the upper hand in the issue and he has a guilty conscious. The guilty conscious only is making him restless more than you probably. People of this kind get ruined soon or later. You just have to bear for some time and the things will settle by its own. You just have to ignore the interference he is causing. I understand the extent of the pain you are in but my dear friend life is just like this, you have to adjust with. Everybody is not completly blessed by god. The calamities come to all in their life today or tomorrow. Don't get upset and depressed every thing will be fine. Wish you happy days son in your life.

He sounds like an abusive person and you are better off without him. If you stop all communications with him (talking, text messaging, etc.) then eventually he will leave you alone. You deserve to be treated better than that. Never give up on love. It will be worth it when you find someone who really loves you and treats you with respect.

well, i was in relationships before ( two times before i got the new one) but these two failed.first was my classmate and a close friend of mine...but ended up he was having other affair with the other woman. when i knew this i cant hardly believe it, why? he is a good man...nothing came out in my mouth....i cried and cried...the day after, i asked him it and i did confirm that it was true and he asked time to leave this woman he is into a relationship while we are still. i know it was hard for him because this woman is just his neighbor and they always see each other....anyway... we are not really meant for each other so let it be... the second one was a friend of my schoolmate......the worst experienced i ever had with this guy..he was using me....he got my virginity then left me.but before he left me, he even thrown hurting words in me and he shown me disrespect....he was taken me for granted too. two days before we broke apart i found out that he was living with her ex girlfriend in one house and my schoolmate told me that he is about to be married.......i was so depressed at that time........ but never lost hope.... im was so serious to him, understand and be patient to him to extent that he just used me... i found the third one whom i really love. and im happy with him.he is opposite...let him go.you can find better than him that deserves your love.....good luck.....

im sorry to hear that your going through this.i would text him and say that you dont want to hear from him again and that you wish him all the best(hehe that will get up his nose " i would have to put that bit in") then i would add that if you get another text or call from him you will be changing your number. mind u i would change it anyway. if he continues to harrass you ring your local police and see if they can help you? you need to know that not all men are like that and unfortunatly youve picked a dud this time around. the longer you put up with his calls and texts the more he will upset you. cut him off quick and move on with your life. big hugs and goodluck

I know that it will be hard to do because you LOVE him but, honey you need to move on. Tell him to leave you alone and that you are done with him. All he is going to do is keep making you feel like your nothing when you are so much more than that. There is someone else out there that will replace him and treat you with way more respect and show you the love you need to be showed. If you keep showing him that you care then he will keep doing these things because he knows that he can get to you. Show him that you are finally moving on and show him what he is loosing.

move on sweetie, and it's not the end of the world. you'll find the right person for you soon. and don't you waste your tears on that guy. he's not worth it.

Sorry to hear about what you are going through. If I were you, I would change my cellphone number immediately. You don't have to put up with that crap! He's being verbally abusive and that is just NOT ON!!!! I know it's hard, and you've been in a relationship with him, but it's time to cut him totally out of your life (if that is what you want!). Get a new cell phone TODAY!

sometimes it happens in life when someone teases you but you must be patient and tink calmly an dmake some good decisions and after passing few days or weeks he will be allriht. many happy and joyful time to both of you in whole life:)

Hi, I think the base of relationship is love and sincerity. One cannot help being with the other without love. He abuses you because he doesn't love you, it is sure. Just avoid him, ignore him.....!

If I own a cool, expensive car I won't have the real value of it in my heart because I drive my cool, expensive car daily. Its value will come in my heart if one day its stolen and all of a sudden I start realizing how beautiful, expensive and cool my car was. Same is the case with your ex. He is now realizing what he has lost but now everything is finished I think. I have no right to interfere in your personal life but my suggestion to you is that give him one last chance. Who knows he may have changed by now !