I made a post... the biggest Mistake of my Life..

@ogtuwan (312)
Philippines
February 11, 2007 11:41pm CST
I made a post the other day, inviting people to join a website surf junky, only to find out it is a scam. one person replied and said she will try it, and I saw her post today saying she is so angry.. I feel so guilty... I really didn't know it was a scam. My only intention is to share knowledge to anyone for them to have additional income. I didn't know it will turn up this way. I am so sorry...
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@Deane_2005 (1644)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
I think it happened to almost everyone. Anyway as long as your conscience is clearn then you don't need to worry about that. You could never say whic is legit and which is not because in just a span of one day everything could happen. I think you should post again and tell him that it wasnt your attentions to refer him to a scam company because you didnt know at all the such website is a scam. Anyway why is he mad at all besides he doesnt lost something very valuable. You could never tell what is what's not until you have tried it. Serve it as an experienced.
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@pmgsan (149)
• India
12 Feb 07
Really it was a good comment.Once publiclly if any one apologize for the mistake, then the mistake is not with them. It was an unintential thing and certainly not done wantedly.Hence it can be pardoned.she need not feel so bad about it.But it is a costly experience andlearned a lesson. Once again good comment and keep advising the right thing.
@pmgsan (149)
• India
12 Feb 07
Really it was is good comment.Once publiclly if any one apologize for the mistake, then the mistake is not with them. It was an unintential thing and certainly not done wantedly.Hence it can be pardoned.she need not feel so bad about it.But it is a costly experience andlearned a lesson. Once again good comment and keep advising the right thing.
@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
Thank you so much... I feel much better now..
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• India
12 Feb 07
its ok friend. to err is human. but self-realisation is one which all humans need to have. you have realised that is very good on your part. by the by no one on earth is hundred percent perfect. if you are hundred percent ferfect there is nothing more to learn. mistakes are stepping stones to perfection.
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@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
Thank you so much..
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@arinig (1376)
• India
12 Feb 07
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many of us face such problem,so dont worry.we may trust some website and be sure it works out for earning money so in such excitment we share it with others.what shall we do if its a scam.this is not our mistake.
@KHyuga (1694)
• Singapore
12 Feb 07
I don't mean to sound harsh but ensuring that the program pays is the responsibility of the referrer. It's exactly because of attitudes like this (referring others even before doing a decent background check on the program itself) that perpetuates scams! Scams feed off blind referrers. If I were to be referred to a program that does not pay, I would be annoyed as well. As a result of the referrer's irresponsibility, I am made to pay for the time and effort spent.
@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
thank you arinig... and for khyuga.. I thank you also for that comment.. I am taking the responsibility. It is my mistake.. My deepest apologies
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@Jamian (2603)
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
that is fine, people made mistakes. Just beware on joining some sites.
@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
thanx jamian... have a nice day!
@yueliu (1619)
• China
12 Feb 07
It is not ur fault.It is the scam website.So don't feel depressed.U can tell the people u refer.If I was the person u invite.I may think u are honest.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
12 Feb 07
yep. it's not her fault. but we always feel guilty when we invited someone and later find out that it's a scam. it's like we dragged them into something too risky. and the only thing we can do is apologize. it's still up to them if they will forgive us or not. it's just a guilty feeling.
@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
thank you guys for understanding me.. Take care...
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• Pakistan
12 Feb 07
Well I'm sure you didn't mean harm to anyone but I have one advice that never ever refer someone to a website unless you know it's legit. I am at the moment trying other sites and I could just open a post and say "Good Earning opportunity" and get many posts and get my increment here and as well as get referrals for the site I'm trying. But the thing is why should I make other people waste their time for my cause??? It just isn't right and I would never feel content nor happy. Well if I do manage to earn some cash from those websites then I will definately let the myLot community know of this. Well if you are unsure about any site, you can try asking people here. If you are still unsure and do not know whether they are legit then just try them and if they turn out to be legit then you can tell the whole myLot community and friends about this. Well I hope that my advice helps you out :)
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@KHyuga (1694)
• Singapore
12 Feb 07
Well, next time you want to recommend a program, make sure that it has paid you, or at least paid someone you trust recently. That's what I always do. I made sure mylot paid me first before getting people to join in here, even though it meant that I lost some potential referrals. At least you won't feel as guilty as you are now.
@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
Thank you khyuga, I will definitely do it next time.. thanx so much..
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@nishanity (1650)
• India
12 Feb 07
thats ok dearie!!! eeryone makes mistakes... well surf junky is one of the most well-known scams known in the net world!!! anyone who has tried to make money online, has had their luck turned sour by surfjunky!!! so u aint alone dear... i have been scammed by them too!!
@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
thank you nishanity... Im sorry to hear you were scammed too.. but it made me feel better in some way... (for the sympathy of course...) Take care... Have a good day!
@kathy77 (7486)
• Australia
12 Feb 07
Well firstly I do feel sorry that you made this big mistake the problem is there are a lot of scams over the internet and unless you are familiar with the sites and you have been paid then I feel that you should not post them on the net not just on mylot, but it is not your fault as you did not know and you are probably only fairly new here, so how where you to know that the site was a scam if you are ever looking for a site that will pay you then by all means go to my profile and message me and I will let you know so that you can earn money I feel really sorry for what happened to you but I know a lot of sites that will genuinely pay you as I have been using the net for over 6 years now.
@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
thanx kathy, and thanx for the offer.. can you give me details about the sites that you said you were sure of? Thank you so much..
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12 Feb 07
We all make mistakes. Please do not be harsh on yourself. Least they know it's a scam and now will probably be careful in the future when it comes to joining sites like surf junky. Really those who complain are mad at themselfs for being foolish. It's not your fault for believing it either it's the site and the person who joined should know this. I hope they don't take it out of you. Kudos! ~Joey
@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
thank you so much joey for giving time on my post.. have a great day
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
Tried it but it was a scam mate. If she is angry she should have researched in more before registering. Right? And you have done your part apologizng so I guess that is enough. You did what you have to do. That's it. Don't say that it is the biggest mistake of your life. It's just an honest mistake. So that's it, if she won't forgive you then that is her problem. We in the Philippines are not so trusting. We just want to earn extra income that is why we bite more than we can chew. Smile. Yokong nakasimangot ka. Papangit ka nyan. Lol :)
@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
Salamat RN!
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• Nigeria
12 Feb 07
Its all your fault dear,you should have waited untill you get paid before you tell others
@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
Thanx.. don't worry. I'll remember that..
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@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
I really can't blame you. As I was also looking for additional sites that pays good. I once used a site referred by one of the myLot members and discovered that it was purely scams and a waste of my time. I'm sure we all learned from our mistakes here.
@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
Im sorry to hear that.. Thank you charms.. good day to you
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@machine2 (24)
• Singapore
12 Feb 07
No problem, at least we know its a scam now. Nearly join it, fortunately with all this posting and comments, I don't need to waste my time trying it out.
@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
Thanx machine for making this post somehow helpful to you.. Happy posting!
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
12 Feb 07
when it comes to online money making sites, i always try it first. if i get paid many times, that's the time i invite people to join. but i don't force anyone. i just share where i earn but no forcing needed. atleast you apologized to that person. i hope she accepts your apology.
@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
Thanx maryannemax... I feel better... Thank you so much... Take care
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@palina77 (1177)
• United States
12 Feb 07
You confessed about your mistake, this is excuseable. I read another similar posting posted by edigital where he said that he feel guilty for a referral of scam sites. I like to add that unless you get paid or until you 200% sure about a site should not refer because people here are for earning have less time to waste on scam sites and killing of others time for your own benefit is hardly excuseable. Though who confess and announce about scam site is brave and we all should forgive them for their simplicity and boldness to make them confessed in front of huge myLot members. Wish good luck to all.
@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
Thank you palina.. I will remember that.. Take care
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@Rasnie (1135)
• Indonesia
12 Feb 07
Some one can learn from her/his own experience or others. At least you have prove that surfjunky is really SCAM program, don't fell guilty because before you have introduce this program to other people, because you are also the victim of it.
@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
thanx for understanding... Have a good day!
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@creationhub (3066)
• Malaysia
12 Feb 07
It is very noble of you to publically apologise for this. Most people won't even bother. Besides, I don't think you mean to scam anyone. It's just that you are new to the cyberspace battleground. I am sure you will succeed given a period of time. Who knows, you may be passionate about making true income from online.
@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
Thank you so much... I just wanted to make a public apology for what I've done..
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@tictac714 (975)
• United States
12 Feb 07
Well everyone makes mistakes but I hope you'll learn from it and next time, don't recommend something till you're sure.
@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
actuallly that's the best thing I've learned at mylot so far.. Take care...
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@simpleatif (2508)
• China
12 Feb 07
I know about surfjunky its scam web before i use this site many days but after some days i find about this site than i know its scam site than i not work any more i think before we join any web than we must get information its really pay site or scam site i think its good way to save our time
@ogtuwan (312)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
I truly agree... Thanx so much! have a great day!
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