Feelings - Do we control them or they control us?

Feelings - Do they control us or we control them?
@abhax123 (1695)
India
February 12, 2007 2:11am CST
We feel different things at different times, we have different moods for every situation and for people we live with. We enjoy with some people and we hate some people... Its normal and if you love all you must be joking around or you are an angel not a human being... Just wanna know why we hate or love someone... We all are human beings we all love/hate but what that thing that tell you that MAN! I hate that Person or Man! I Love her... Whats it that...?????
5 responses
@mr_nerd (129)
• India
12 Feb 07
Yes you are right these feelings control us. If you can control all your feelings then i think you can have peace in life. Or you can say you have become a different person.
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@anjoks (2084)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
In every aspects of it all, we must show our feelings. It's so nice expressing how we feel, right? Whether it's bad or good one. We control our feelings if we have to, to some extent we do that. . . . . . . btw, can you teach me how to add some images to my discussions? i'm lost. thanks. ^_^
@abhax123 (1695)
• India
12 Feb 07
This is coz they all images are not .jpeg what you do is open the pic you want to add in paint and now use the option "save as" and save it as .jpeg file and they you will see you can upload the image without any problem... hope it helps!
@berry9 (590)
• India
12 Feb 07
most of the times we are unable to control feelings.it takes a strong mind to feel stone cold.we need to concentrate on something else when it is hard to control our feelings.
@abhax123 (1695)
• India
12 Feb 07
Ya, u just cant control them!
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
We are apt to be controlled by our feelings but we have intelligence to control our feelings. Men are rational and men are not just being controlled by their emotions. Otherwise, many of us would perhaps be in jail for killing others because of impulse or emotions. If I'm angry, it seems that if I box the face of another, definitely that face would be disfigured so I don't box anybody if I'm angry. If I box on the belly, I foresee my fist like a sword piercing the abdomen of that person. I believe that men are able to control their feelings and not their feelings controlling them although in some instances, our impulse control us.
@abhax123 (1695)
• India
12 Feb 07
Right said!
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
In everything that we do, we always have a choice. It is up to you to be happy or to be sad. It is up to you to love or to hate. When we let our feelings to control us... it is our choice... and whatever the consequences are, we can only blame ourselves.