February 12, 2007 3:14am CST
Is it okay to keep a secret from your partner becuase you know it will hurt them if they know? In the sense, that the secret is about an attraction you might have for someone else, but have not acted upon at all?
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@freesoul (3023)
• Egypt
3 Mar 07
Yes it would be better to keep a secret of that nature, after al "what you don't know won't hurt you" I don't see any reason one should say something like that to their loved one..
• Philippines
3 Mar 07
for me, it would be better if you tell all your insights to your partner and you shouldn't keep secrets even if that thing would hurt them...coz the ache is just temporary and for sure they will have recover it...but keeping secrets? i think it wouldn't be a good idea you will hurt your partner much if you do it, right?!
@lia_88 (3)
• United States
1 Mar 07
If you are thinking about acting on it then don't. You don't want to go there. If the attraction is confusing you then you might want to think about why? Is there something wrong with your current relationship? If there is then this is something you should discuss with your partner and perhaps a counselor if you two can't resolve any problems you might be having.
@runsgame (2032)
• India
12 Feb 07
ya , secrets are always meant in this way only. if u hav attraction towards a thing or towards a person or some happenings. that thing or object will become secret to you provided it should fulfil certain basi c constraints. but secrets are always to be regarded as secret .otherwise it will loose its entity