what a friend should do?

@shan20us (272)
Pakistan
February 12, 2007 3:14am CST
I had a friend who is very careful for me till last 6 months but now i realise that he is using me like my money because he is not so rich as i am and from last 6 months i am facing only troubles in life (which are part of life nothing to surprise) but his behaviour to me have changed and he is behaving like a new person to me, on that i am shocked to him and want to know what happend but he is not giving me a satisfied reason and just ignoring me and one more thing that he is not leaving me completely because of future watch, is this fair?
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5 responses
@naadia (828)
• India
12 Feb 07
he is not a friend.he just want your money.better you avoid him.and don't give him any money.avoid him completely.there is some guys in my college exactly like your "friend".they just want money.they will not worth for friendship!also this i s a lesson for you.don't ever try to help someone financially unless you really know him!i don't see this behavior in any girls!
@shan20us (272)
• Pakistan
13 Feb 07
ya i know but i am so sad about that and now its really very hard to trust on anyone for me because i have losted a friend by the way thanks for your response
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• Philippines
12 Feb 07
In life, we will encounter persons like the one you are describing here and we call them opportunists. It will be wise for you to leave this person and find a friend who will really stand by you. You may be financially well off, but you can still find friends who may not be at par with your financial status. It is not only unfair if you stay friends with this guy, it is stupidity. You already know the kind of person that he is and yet you still consider clinging to a 'I don't know what kind of friendship you got there'. Go find yourself other friends and this time, it will be best if you keep some comfortable distance from a friend - don't be so close. If you cannot have some friends immediately, just wait awhile, very soon you will find some worthy of your friendship.
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@shan20us (272)
• Pakistan
13 Feb 07
do u mean to say that no one in the world can be your best friend ? with him u can share everything happiness,sorrows like theses things but i agree with one of your discussion that dont be so close. and thanks for the response
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
12 Feb 07
A friend is a real friend if he has no need of anything from you. He always thinks good of you and vice versa. A friend sacrifices for you if it need to be and vice versa. A good friend always a well wisher, induge in discussing about how best one can lead the life, discuss about common interests.
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@shan20us (272)
• Pakistan
12 Feb 07
well a friend should be like this but so sad i have no one of them
@elixer (253)
• India
13 Feb 07
Your friend who was very caring for u for the past 6 months has changed suddenly and he is not giving you any correct explanation for that why he is changed in these days .A friend in need is a friend in deed a ture friend never leaves u in troubles . a true friend is one who guides you in a right path when u go in a wrong way. u can help him when he is in need but if he is utilising u for his own benifits from a very long time and is not good to u then u have to think about it seriously and find outr a solution . better dont waste time in worring about him if he is not being good to u
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@LindaLou (483)
• Canada
12 Feb 07
A true friend is there for you in good times and in bad, to both celebrate with you and support you. They don't leave when things get rough. That's what is called a fair-weather friend. Someone who is only around when things are good. It sounds like this person is using you. And I think that you already know this with your gut feelings. I'd get rid of this person from your life if I were you.
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@shan20us (272)
• Pakistan
12 Feb 07
yes i am exactyly feeling like this and as you said i have leave him till past month and thanks for the respone with some advice