Lord, Now my Mother in Law is going to fly over and be in the middle of it all

I am sorry you are going through this, don't be down on yourself though. I have 4 kids and 2 dogs and lets face it, it is not easy to keep the house spotless at all. I know when I clean the house, I will start in one room, and then move to the next only to come out to the first room I already cleaned all messed up again. There is a saying: Cleaning and Scrubbing Can Wait 'Til Tomorrow Babies Grow Up We've Learned To Our Sorrow So Quiet Down Cobwebs Dust Go To Sleep I'm Rocking My Baby And Babies Don't Keep That is so true, don't you think so? I think your mother in law needs a swift kick in the you know what. LOL I am just kidding, but she does need to know that this is your family life, not hers and she should mind her business. Don't let her walk all over you, stand up to her in a polite way. If you don't mind me asking, what "habit" are you talking about? Sounds to me like you have your hands full and maybe your husband needs to do what you do everyday just once and then he will realize it isn't so easy and that you are doing the best you can do. I betcha you don't have any time to yourself right? I know I don't, well only when my kids are in school, then that is the time I do my housework, blah blah blah yucky laundry too lol, I hear what you are saying, I really do. Just know that you are doing a great job and don't listen to them.

Well you know what to do Tell her to mind her own Buisness or even better to take her Son back with her. It must be Scotland lol as My Ex was from there to and his Parents always stuck up for him until a year before they passed away. They realised what was going on. Tell her to mind her own Buisness and to stay out of it.

UGH. It's really irritating that you seem to be the last one to know about his habit. There's a lack of honesty here and it's just not right. He should have told you, and since he didn't, his mother should have told you via email or telephone. There is absolutely no need for her to come over. She has nothing to be concerned about apart from her son, who she can talk to on the phone. Be careful. Something about this woman strikes me as strange. Don't trust her and whatever you do, do not leave your baby with her alone, not even for a second. Not even if you only need to go and get bread and milk. She's trouble. Right now, if I were you, I WOULD boot your husband out, since all this is stirring up far too much trouble and you simply just don't need the stress. Good luck, dear, and if you're stuck, PM me.

I feel as if I have walked into the middle of a conversation, but here is my two cents worth, You appear to be the only adult in this entire situation, so you are going to have to make some decisions that effect you and your child. As for your hubby and his mom, I personally would ship him home to his mommy as defective workmanship material. You should not have to be the one to train him, He is an adult and should know better, this being said it is obvious that he is mentally a child, and there is nothing you can do about that, so do not waste you time and breath trying. I truly do hope the best for you, and I do know what you are going through as well been there done that. Honestly it is not going to get better until you take charge.

firstly i would put her on block sender list after i sent her an email telling her not to bother coming over and if she felt the need to buy a plane ticket it should have her babys name on it and she can have him back as hes a regect (sorry) as far as telling you to clean your house and the rest HOW RUDE !!! i would have to tell her to sit on that one and she definetly woulnt be welcome into my house after all 1st impressions count and shes already worn hers out, haha. a childs well being is usually a mothers 1st priority expecially a baby and you sound to me to be a very smart loving nurturing mum who wants the best for her baby and family, if i was you i would hand hubby back to his mummy with a return to sender sticker stuck to his head. i hope that thing work out for you, big hugs you sound like you need it