What would you do in a situation

United States
February 12, 2007 2:31pm CST
to do? Ok here is this situation. we set aside money to go to the mardi gras parade and party in st.louis this weekend. I had requested off sat and sun for that reason on jan 19th and today i saw the schedual(sp) and she has me on for sun. \PLUS I am filling in for her tuesday wednesday and thursday a shift i dont work. should I just not go in, should i call in (then i ll have to have a dr note) my husband said i should not have said what it was for (i said medical) but a month ago in advance he said it is none of their buisness why i need off and now he is mad cause i want to go in on sunday and work. so what do i do or what would you do?
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• United States
12 Feb 07
Talk to your manager, remind them that you requested that day off and see if there is anyway they can change the schedule. If they can't then the responsible thing to do would be to work. Another option is to tell them that you needed that day off and (remind them of when you requested it off) and tell them that you are very sorry but you are going to be unable to work that day. You'd be running the risk that you would lose your job though, so keep that in mind. It isn't any of their business why you need it off and in the future you should always just say "for personal reasons" if they ask why. You shouldn't lie and say it is something that it isn't...that can come back to bite you in the butt! Talk to the manager and hopefully they will be understanding and let you take that day off! Good luck!
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• United States
13 Feb 07
I was going to just go ahead and go in and work but my husband is a little upset with me.. so i figured i would call and remind her that I would not be in on sunday and then remind her that I requested it off. if they ask for a dr note to return I am going to quit. thank you for the advice and information..
@jmcafam (2890)
• United States
12 Feb 07
If you had requested the day off and was approved back than you should point it out to the person. Remind them you had already asked for the time off in advance. I would just go if it had been approved. Besides you are doing her a favor by working time and days for that person. That is not right for her to turn around and expect you to work on the day you had requested off.So go and have fun at Mardi Gras for all of us that are unable to go.
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• United States
13 Feb 07
thank you and if i decide to go to mardi gras I will have fun for everyonre that is not able to attend. But if i do go to work on sunday i wont be going. thank you