Goth Boys: Attractive because they edge on being cross-dressers??

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I have always had a thing for goth boys and all that culture. But with the music and stereotypes asside I have come to one conclusion. I think that the reason many girls find gothic boys attractive is because it's on the edge of cross-dressing and most girls want someone sweet and not "manly". I think that seeing men in makeup and tights is sexy and it's also very dirty because it's out of the social norms. Seeing a man put on eye liner, lip stick and so on just seems so much sexier and appealing then how they normally look. For those of you who ARE attractive to gothic boys do you think that it is because woman like to relate to sweet men instead of manly men? And for this reason we associate makeup with that?