Who would you choose, a guy who love u or the guy who seem likely not?

United States
February 13, 2007 12:57am CST
I have this dream the other day about 2 guys. One guy has always love me and probably will for the rest of his life. But the thing is I don't have the same feeling for him. The other guy is the new guy, he excite me. I think I love this guy. I got more stuff in common with this guy. But when it comes to make the decision, even he said I should choose the other guy who love me. Just that make me love him more. I don't know. What would you do if it were you? I know this is just a dream, but what if it happen for real. I really want to know, just in case.
3 responses
@gharinder (2044)
• India
13 Feb 07
you know it is often said that if you want happiness in your life than choose one who loves you rather than choosing whom you love.
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• United States
13 Feb 07
I guess the guy who love me will shower me with loves every day. That would be nice. A happy life indeed. But I guess if I choose that guy then I should stay far away from the other guy not even a hi. how are you? You don't want to see what happen when you have a jealous husband in the house. I think I watch too many romance movies. :)
@yana0806 (565)
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
Choose the guy who loves you....Its better that you're the one learning to love someone rather than you're the one waiting for someone learning to love you...
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• United States
13 Feb 07
That's true. Waiting for someone to love you back is a pain. I wish it is easy to choose though. Can I actually learn to love another one? I always thought that once you love someone, that's it. You can't love another human being or else that wouldn't be true love. I saw lots of divorces in my life. People keep cheating on others. It sadden me to think what if this happen to me someday. If I were to choose someone, it has to be the ONE.
@syimiaoa1 (199)
• China
13 Feb 07
I think you shoule chose the guy who loves you.If you chose the one who doesn't love you at all,when you get married .Do you think your life will be happy?Mebe you will happy with the guy who you love deeply,however,do you think on his side?He won't be happy to live with a girl who he doesn't love.So the better choice is the guy who loves you ,whenever you are sad or happy,he will be with you,and you will impressed by him in the end .At least,the guy will love you forever!
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• United States
13 Feb 07
That seems logical. But can you spend the rest of your life with a guy who you don't have a feeling for? He's just a friend to me. On the other hand the other guy doesn't truely love me. I can't wait for him 4ever to change his mind, right? There seem to be no right answer when it comes to love.