whom will you tell..??? parents,friends or any other ????...just reply.....

India
February 13, 2007 7:01am CST
if you have any personal problems whom will you tell first.....???? parents???? friends??? or any other... just reply....??? post your answers/views.... if told why...???it will be greatly appreciated.....
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8 responses
• India
13 Feb 07
I will first share with my friends ,because they are of same age so they can understand our feelings.And then with my parents so that they can give a suitable suggestion,since they had crossed our age.
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@Jleivang (374)
• India
13 Feb 07
I hardly open up my feelings to others even friends and family. But, when I feel i can't suppress it any longer, I tell my close friends regarding my Problems, personnel or any other. Sharing our problems really relieve us though it doesn't solve it.
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@XxAngelxX (2831)
• Canada
13 Feb 07
I normally don't tell anyone my personal problems, but if it's something I'm having a hard time dealing with I will tell my sister or my mother. They usually listen and have good advice to offer me. Sometimes it's a big help just to be able to talk about it and get it off my shoulders.
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• United States
13 Feb 07
I always helped my children find a trustworthy adult to befriend. One that I also trusted who would keep my childs confidence unless, of course, it was an urgent matter that needed my attention. Other teens, and young adults tell their business and yours. I hope you find a trustworthy adult who give good, no great advise. This can be in the form of a story or a recalling they may want to share. Remember why the story is being told. If the adult souds like your teen friends, they haven't gotten wiser with age. So pick carefully. Why would you tell them? Because you have a problem you can't resolve alone, or maybe a question long unanswered. Maybe you just need a sounding wall because the answer is already in you, but you just haven't talked it over with yourself. Smile (keep checking for website 'justaskmama') mamapri
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@ssh123 (31096)
• India
13 Feb 07
If it is concerening money, I would always tell the parents, because it is they who can solve the problem. If it is concerning about my friends at school/college, I have always told my brothers who suggest ways and means. If it is concerning my love affair, I always told my friends who could do something meaningful.
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@NAB666 (99)
• Canada
13 Feb 07
first i will tell about the problem to my friends then if it will necessary i will tell my parents about the problem
@lols189 (4797)
13 Feb 07
i would tell my family and my boyfriend my problems as i feel much more comfortable speaking to them rather than friends
• United States
13 Feb 07
If I have a personal problem OR triumph, I will confide or tell my sister or my best friend first. Their opinions mean the most to me. I will call one or the other on the phone.