Having bed problems with my husband

Puerto Rico
February 13, 2007 8:44am CST
My husband is 8 years older than I am, he is the perfect husband, very king, always taking care of me and very tender, but in the privacy of our bed we are not that perfect. Is not that is bad but it is not that good either. First I thought it was because all the work he has , but it is increasing. My question is, Should I speek freely to him about my feelings and ask him to get help, or should I just keep my feelings to myself? What cuold hurt more to the relation?
2 responses
@BlackBay (584)
• Canada
13 Feb 07
I would talk to him, he's the one person you should be able to discuss anything with, especially after 8 yrs of marriage. Maybe there is something bothering him or he's under stress, could be something medically wrong. You won't know unless you talk about it.
@debdoot (242)
• India
13 Feb 07
In this kind of a situation I believe that u should talk to ur husband... as u two r partners in every way possible, u two should try resolve all personal problems together... else it may happen one day u will look to other men to fulfill ur needs.... that won't be a good thing for ur family... talk to him be straight and understanding and try to help him if he is into any kind of problem.... goodluck...