A Friend who knows your man is a cheater but chooses not to tell you???

I don't think you would lose your best friend if you told her. It's all in the way you tell her. Best friends wouldn't be true best friends if they couldn't share everything about each other and not forgive. I remember getting mad at a friend of mine for not telling me what she knew when she saw my man out without me. I would want a best friend that is truthful. Sure it may hurt, but I would rather have a friend telling me the truth instead of someone lying to me. It would make my friend just as bad as the man that was cheating on me. Just my thoughts. Like someone said earlier, get proof, a picture or something, and then let her know.

It doesn't mean youre a bad friend, it just means that youre afraid of losing her. But I think that hard as it is, you need to tell her, and risk losign the friendship. Or you can send her an anonymous letter about what happened.

If you were in her shoes would you want to know? Perhaps you can bring about this topic of discussion with her, just casually then you will know for sure. It's a tough situation to be in but if it were me , I would want to know. I have separated from my husband and since then two of my friends have come forward and told me he had hit on them several times. I wish they had told me when it happened as it could have saved me from making some really big mistakes.