Is it "proper" to send a thank you, gift, ect. to your realtor?

Houses and homes - Houses for sale
@mamashane (1140)
United States
February 13, 2007 1:06pm CST
We are buying a new house and are very happy with the whole process, everything just seems to fall into place with this deal. I was wondering if it would be odd if I sent a thank you or a gift or something to our realtor and our broker? Has anyone done this? What did you send? I'd like to thank her but not sure how to do it.
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@Denmarkguy (1845)
• United States
14 Feb 07
Whereas it might be a bit unusual, there's really nothing wrong with it. I recently sold my house, and was very happy with the realtor-- he really went "above and beyond" and brought a full-price offer in a reasonable amount of time, in a stagnant market. So we sent him a thank you card with a $100 gift card to nice restaurant in town-- and it went across really well. He actually called back and said it was the first time in YEARS anyone had done something that nice. So I'd say "Do it!"
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@mamashane (1140)
• United States
14 Feb 07
That was very thoughtful of you. A gift card is a good idea, thanks.
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@shambuca (2524)
• United States
13 Feb 07
my friend gave her realtor a little gift- i don't remember what it was but the realtor found her a house quickly and in a neighborhood she liked, so she felt she should thank her. The broker she didn't bother with - he made enough money on her sale. LOL
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@mamashane (1140)
• United States
14 Feb 07
That's also a good point...they do make good money off us buyers.
@Signal20 (2281)
• United States
14 Feb 07
I wouldn't worry about a gift, she most likely made a bunch of money on the sale, I'm sure she's thankful!! lol. Figure, they usually charge a 6% commission, I believe 3% goes to the company listing it, 2% to the listing agent, and 1% to the selling agent. That's just a rough guesstimate on the percents, but that's basically it. That's why listing agents love to sell their own homes. Anyway, she should be sending you a gift(seriously our agent sent us one), if she was a good agent, she would. If you want to send something, I think a Thank You card would be more then enough.
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@mamashane (1140)
• United States
15 Feb 07
You've made a good point there. What did your agent send you?
@imadriscoll (2228)
• United States
13 Feb 07
I don't think that it is ever improper to be grateful. I have never given a gift to a realtor/broker before ... but as soon as I sell my house I might just do that. I think that it is very considerate of you to thank your realtor for a job well done. Outstanding service should be recognized, that way others might take note.
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@mamashane (1140)
• United States
14 Feb 07
That's a good point. Thank you very much. Both the realtor and the broker did an outstanding job and even saved us money in the process...I feel I should show my appreciation.
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@kareng (54572)
• United States
14 Feb 07
Sounds like you are totally pleased with their service and a Thank you in the form of a card is just fine. I've seen realator's send buyer's gifts before and have received gifts in this capacity before. I don't think there is anything wrong with reversing the action. It shows you are appreciative of the hard work they put into serving you.
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@mamashane (1140)
• United States
15 Feb 07
I'm very pleased and just want to show my gratitude, was looking for a good way to do it though.
@Myrrdin (3599)
• Canada
13 Feb 07
I don't think its odd. When I bought my house I sent the realtor a thank you letter.
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@mamashane (1140)
• United States
14 Feb 07
I'm thinking I might just only send a thank you card. I'm so bad at writing them though I always think I make myself sound like a dork.
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• United States
13 Feb 07
I'm sure it is a bit unusual, but I think sending a note would be a very lovely surprise for your realtor and broker, it would also encourage them to work as hard for others in the future, knowing that their extra effort is noticed and appriciated.
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@mamashane (1140)
• United States
14 Feb 07
I think they probably get alot of thank you notes but what else is there that I can send? I basket of cookies might be too much...lol
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