Was your baby planned or unplanned?

United States
February 13, 2007 4:03pm CST
If you planned it, how long did you try before you conceived? How did you know it was the right time in your life to have a child? Did trying to conceive put stress on your relationship with your husband or boyfriend? For those of you who did not plan their pregnancy, how did you feel when you found out you were pregnant? Looking back, do you wish you would've been able to plan it instead of being surprised? Do you ever regret the choices you made? Would you have done anything differently?
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@mflower2053 (3227)
• United States
15 Apr 07
My first was planned and it took about 3 years and 1 round of clomid for me to finally get pregnant. The second was unplanned and I just knew I was going to end up pregnant.
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@cherubsn (32)
• Canada
13 Feb 07
Took only three tries. Thank god it happened because we would have stopped trying soon after that. I was very scared. You question what your getting yourself into because we are all so selfish before kids. But you wont ever regret that little baby.
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@Miriel (1043)
• Norway
13 Feb 07
He was almost planned. We decided to stop using birth control and see what happend. We both agreed on that it was ok to have a baby. I thought it might take about 6 months before I got pregnant , but it went a bit faster than that lol. So he was half-way planned lol. Now we are already thinking of getting baby number 2 (my baby are now 5 months)