being judge by people around you!
By jerpogz13
@jerpogz13 (283)
Antarctica
February 13, 2007 4:16pm CST
i just want to share my emotions right now. i just want to express my feelings im so sad for what happened to me last night .i cry so much.i cant sleep!the people around me judge me in the way of taking care of my 2 children.they say that when my children is in with me they got sick.they say that im a nonsense mother,theyre trying to imply that im not taking care of my kids as well.that is not true.all i want is the best for my child.knowing that i would accept theyre accusations to me.it is a foul.im only that human, who hurts a lot.i dont know why they think that im not good mother to my children.for all of my life nobody say that to me.even my parents didnt say anything that would hurt my feelings.nobodys perfect i know that im not a perfect mother to my child!i love my kids so much! i know that i do the best that i can.i know that they care a lot for my child!because of what they said about me really bothers me thats why can hide my feelings. ifeel empty!being into this siuation is really hard.even my husband hurt my feelngs!he dont undrestand my emotios!i really want to see my mom as soom as possible,i want her to know what my problem was!i want my mom alsoo to give her reactios to this.i want her to know also my upcomings!i really want to patch up this sitau i want some advice .! i know that i can haNDLE IT! tion!som I HOPE AND PRAY,THAT I WILL SOLVE THIS PROBLEM VERY SOON!
3 responses
@sharon613 (2321)
• United States
13 Feb 07
My hubby and I have been judged so so many times by previous and present neighbors. Or should I phrase it as just being concerned for our pathetic money situation that has been lingering on in our pathetic lives for the past 23 years.
@jerpogz13 (283)
• Antarctica
13 Feb 07
well, you are strong person.you just accept the compliments of the others.
@sharon613 (2321)
• United States
14 Feb 07
Thanks, Happy valentines day and I hope you enjoy the rest of your day.
@letmehelpu (46)
• United States
13 Feb 07
Have you always been so affected by other's opinions of you in other areas of you life? If it's only the subject of mothering that you're upset about, ask yourself if you're really the best mother you can be. If the answer is yes, then don't worry about what others think or say. Live right for your own mind. If the answer is no, maybe I could be better, then take actions to improve and feel good about yourself.
As for your husband, men rarely understand their wives emotions unless you explain carefully to them. They just don't get us!
In the meantime, concentrate on the good things about yourself and tell yourself that you are good!
@silver_moon525 (282)
• United States
13 Feb 07
By being sad and angry, you're really giving way to your own feelings. You're giving the other people the satisfaction of hurting you. Of course every mother loves her kids but you also need to stay strong for them as well. I know it's hard but shut out what other people say. There are only about two choices, shut it out or accept it. Depending on what they're saying to you, you can either ignore them, or to really truly listen to what they say. Maybe take their advice and be an even better mother. Either that or ignore them, it's their opinion anyway, who cares what they say about you right? By the way, care to share what they actually said to you?
@jerpogz13 (283)
• Antarctica
13 Feb 07
thanks a lot!you really helps me in a way of accepting of what theyve said to me even if it hurts me so much.!i know my self as well! i just try to ignore all the hurts theve said to me!
