If your girl friend pregnant
9 Jan 07
I honestly don't think that just because your girlfriend is pregannt that u should marry her, it shouldn't be based on that status.. You should base it on wheter u love her or not, whether you plan on settling down with her and looking after the child.. But then again, it's up to your girlfriend aswel :/
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5 Jun 07
Sacrificialclam -in engilsh please!! and the seccond loser, lmao, your so stupid, I'm female check my profile, and I'm also a mom. I don't want any one mayrrying me cause they think they should. If its not love then its not enough to keep it together. and you don't walkiin into a relationship loving the person its somthing that comes with time and compadibility + - !
9 Jan 07
hahaha....silly question i think :) there are 2 choices for that case. 1. marry her, 2. tell her to get abortion :) so, choose the best decision for everybody! marry or abortion. if she's ready then go marry her. if don't, unfortunately abortion is the other way :)
28 May 07
I think you should do some research into abortion. You think its a trivial matter. It isn't. I is a very hard thing to do. I am sure you will think twice about the method of abortion. Some methods involving dismembering the baby while in the womb then removing it. Would you wish your unborn child and girlfriend to go through such a process?
10 Jan 07
if i happen to be a guy and my girlfriend is pregnant, i'll certainly assess myself first if i should marry him. marriage must not occur soon just because the girl is already pregnant. however, if i am really sure with my feelings to her definitely, i would. anyways, being a girl i woudn't also feel like marrying my boyfriend just because he got me pregnant.
10 Jan 07
oh abou my statement 'i'll certainly assess myself first if i should marry him' haha! its supposedly '....assess my self first if i should marry her' haha im sorr for confusing you guys. anyways istanto i forgot to mention, it is an interesting discussion.
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13 Dec 06
I don't believe that anyone should marry another person based solely on the fact that they're going to have a child together. If you planned on it ahead of time already and can think of many other reasons why you would want to marry her, then that is a bit different. But if a child is the only reason one can think of for marrying someone, then I truly believe that is a recipe for disaster.
12 Jun 07
I never stable yet if I never choose a choice to marry her.When we doing that I think we have to be ready to take the responsibilities. about love,You are true that the marriage must in love foundation.but how the girl can pregnant if she doing it not by love to her boy friend (if the guys is really her true boyfriend). you said that I just jump to another serious matter.It's true girl,but we face it together as the couple who live together and face any live chalenges together,not alone.Can you imagine if the girls face herlife alone with her baby that maybe she didn't want to have. If you are the girl,why you didn't think it? if you were the girl,do you want to care the baby alone?do you want to face the life alone without no body besides you?I don't think so.
11 Jun 07
But what if you are not stable yet to be a husband to her? You just jump on to another serious matter. I'm a girl so I know how she feels. If I'm on her situation, it's not enough reason why you should marry me. You must in love with me because marriage is the union of the 2 individuals who were both in love.
12 Jun 07
well, it depends. if you think you really love each other then go ahead and marry her. but if you think that you have a lot of differences and think that mariage will not work for you, then u dont have to. pregnancy should not be a reason to get married.
11 Jun 07
If you really love her, then you should. Life is short but marriage is long. It's a commitment. You can't say yes today and no tomorrow once you get in there. I'm a girl and I know what your girlfriend would fell if you turned her down. You have to be honest with her with your present situation. Marriage is a big responsibility. Are you stable enough to marry her? I mean can you support her financially and your future baby?
28 May 07
well i been with my parnter for 10 years now and hadn married him, im pregnant now and we are discussing getting married, not just because of the baby but because it would be nice. i dont think it matters though if you marry or not, all that matters is the child and as long as its loved who cares