Fiends with BENEFITS!
By vangie79
@vangie79 (198)
Philippines
February 14, 2007 2:23am CST
I'm a very friendly person but i choose people whom i'll give my trust and accept them to be my true friends... I've known some friends who are not really true in you, the so called "FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS". They are friends in times of their needs. They spread not good things about you to others for them to get others attention to make them friends. I may say that they are self centered people because all they want is everybodys attentions though they are aware that they are hurting other feelings.
How would you handle these kinds of friends?
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@hmike_d (1529)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
Notwithstanding this kind of friends, or the persons who were in-line with this, they must have been paid for what they did. Not all good people could always be good in you after having known that you're just taking advantage for his/her goodness. Can i consider it "opportunist"? well, could be. Anyway, it is sometimes good if both are benefiting each other or seems like the fire that they have would blow up and burn themselves. YOu will really see the fight in between.lol... If we gonna handle this, it is stupid if we still let him hit us the second or third time. Try to defend yourself from this kind of people... slap back to their face the things they did in you which you really hate and in that sense, they could realize what kind of leech they are. I am reminded of the Philippines' Senatorial Elections this coming May... think you know what i want to point out...
@marynheart (61)
• Philippines
16 Feb 07
yup!!! its true some friends are taking attention for their own benefits they are not aware either they hurting people around they are a selfish kind of friends that they only think what they can get for this person if nothing to gain they will not give their hand in times of trouble/down moment. its hard to handle this kind of friends i may say "forget this kind friends"
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