Are you willing to sacrifice your Friendship for Honesty?

Philippines
February 14, 2007 10:14pm CST
Some friends become hypocrite. They give you a sweet smile and say bad things about you at the back. It is hard to keep a friend when he is no longer honest with you. Infront and at the back. Some show false feeling of concern when in truth they are happy that you meet tragedy in life.
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• Nigeria
15 Feb 07
yes i agreed with you, for what you just said and reason is that no how you live with or love someone and that person did not love you that simply means the love is not really pure. cos you will be the only one that is seeking for the goodness of the love, so at the end of the day you just be feed up and you are going to find in an improper situation. someone like me is searching for someone that will love me hole hearted without deceit or lust........
@lislis (89)
• Indonesia
15 Feb 07
It will be wise to wrap our honesty in a beautiful package without distorting anything and in other hand we dont need to sacrifice our friendship. a little tricky but I guess it will be a wisest way. Agreed?
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
well, i guess you can do both... they say friendship is build on honesty and love for each other. if you think they cannot be trusted anymore. just say what's on your mind. if they accept it with all heart then thats okay if not then forget about them. they are considered to be not real friends at all. right... all my friends are boys because girls are known as backstabbers.. you know...
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
i know what you mean. what i do in those kinds of situations is i confront them. and if they still deny saying stuff and still act like you're ok, then what i do is i treat them with the brutal honesty that i wish they have in front of me. i've always hated "plastic" friends and backstabbers. and i have bashed a few of those people's faces. though i dont suggest that you do it, since it's also a bad thing, violence really helps the confrontation. hehe. that of course, is a solution most used by dudes.
@lonewolfnan (4367)
• Canada
15 Feb 07
I believe the term "friend" is one of the most over-used words in our language today.Many "friends" are nothing more than aquaintences or neighbours.When i use the term "friend" for someone,it means I trust them with all I have. With aquaintences,I do not put the same trust or faith in them.I have different levels of aquaintences,but do not share everything with them.So if they talk behind my back,then they go lower on the list.It takes a long time to become a friend,but i do believe that Friends Are Forever.