Texting you're own wife pretending you are someone else to test her.
By manong05
@manong05 (5027)
Philippines
February 14, 2007 10:32pm CST
This is one of my friend's biggest problem. He played a game and put himself into a terrible problem. He pretended to be another person and courted his own wife through text messages. He used sweet messages and unfortunately his wife fell for him. He said to himself "No she can't do this" so he asked her for them to meet somewhere to see whether his wife has a real intention to cheat. Unfortunately, she agreed to. His wife went to the place but he decided not to show up.
He kept this a secret but it is eating him and he feels he couldn't trust his wife any longer.
Does he have a reason not to trust anymore considering that it is his own doing?
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4 responses
@Bizziebod (3497)
•
15 Feb 07
I'm afraid your friend has really brought this upon himself and perhaps his wife went there out of curiosity and to perhaps tell him face to face that she was married and couldn't possibly be unfaithful. If you persist long enough with anyone they are bound to be flattered with the sweet messages. Your friend I'm sorry to say is a fool and if she found out he would probably lose her anyway! My ex tried to so something similar to me but he used an online sms service which he had to register his mobile number with - when the text came through it showed his number!! Needless to say he soon became my 'ex'
@loujac3 (1188)
• United States
15 Feb 07
I can understand his concern. But, he did entice her and he knows what she is most likely to fall for. He needs to accept the fact that he started this entire fiasco and he is partly responsible. Is he just looking for a reason to leave her and this is what came to mind first? If she took the message to heart and went for the bait then maybe he has been giving her reason to doubt his love. As married adults, people sometimes forget that it is the little things that count. Courting should never stop and dating is something that keeps the spice in the relationship. I think he is getting a taste of his own medicine and it doesn't taste very good!
@moonmagick (1458)
• United States
15 Feb 07
He should definately talk to her. Its hard to say that she would have cheated. Maybe she even realized it was him. And besides if sweet words from another man were enough to make her think about straying, then they definately have some issues in their relationship that deserve to be discussed. I don't condone her planning on meeting another man, I am just saying that the only way he will ever know why she did it if he doesnt talk to her.
@fake_you (391)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
well, it was his fault why his wife turned that way. he intentionally courted her and tried to make her cheat, and she fell for the trap. i don't think he should've done that in the first place if he really loves his wife.
