arrange marriage or love marriage

February 14, 2007 11:12pm CST
hey friends comment and gv ur views on that whether arrange marriages are better or love marriage.
2 responses
@sylvrrain (659)
• United States
15 Feb 07
In my culture, love marriages are the only way, actually. I can't imagine anyone born and raised in this country agreeing to an arranged marriage. I would not want an arranged marriage myself, but I can understand why arranged marriages happen in different countries. I do agree about one thing. With an arranged marriage, two people are forced to be married, so, once the couple gets past that, they can really get to know one another, and with time can learn to love their spouse. I also understand the divorce rate is almost non-existant. With the love marriages here in the US, many times the true love is not there and people get divorced a lot.
@oleinoleo (389)
• Malaysia
15 Feb 07
love marriage. first, i know him and love him so much.. i cant accept people that i didnt know and didnt love. how i'm gonna take and face this for a long term future... i cant accept it. but i thank to god cuz my family understand and they like my choice...