how could i forget about my ex?

Philippines
February 14, 2007 11:53pm CST
could anyone give their advices... im just so down... cant still egt her off of my senses
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8 responses
@bkfuels (1603)
• Canada
15 Feb 07
Keep busy, stay away from places that you use to go together call up your fiends and vent. Start looking for someone new the last one will make you forget faster then anything.
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
I know your feelings now. You can cry if you want. Express your emotion. Feel the pain. As the time would go by I know you can accept the fact that the two of you are no longer lovers. Just think positive. He does not mean the whole world for you. Someone is meant for you. I know it will come that is why your ex and you separated because someone is waiting for your love. This world is full of changes. We can't control the fact that we are changing. We just need to become strong and face our problem. Cheer up, smile, life is wonderful!
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@cheenlly (3477)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
i understand what you feel. i've been there like you when we broke up with my ex and until now im having hard time to move on though compared at first when it still fresh its really difficult. its been one year now and i could say somehow i forget him but of course there are times i remember him and it make me cry sometimes at night. To mention of that he just texted yesterday and im really angry and cant help to cry because he refreshes again the pain. I have tried to get him out of my system by keeping myself busy and meet new friends and now im picking up the peices again with someone new. Only time can tell when is your wound will be heal. Just help yourself get busy and someday you will forget him when you found someone new.
• Canada
15 Feb 07
The only thing that is going to work for this is time . It takes time to ease the pain but if you try to get out with some friends or something you may find that it will help speed the process . When you love someone it is hard to forget everything that you shared , but just remember that as time goes by so will the pain that you feel of not being with that person and there is someone out there who will be better suited for you . Best of Luck !!
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@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
Time can heal any wounds!Though it leaves a scar!Let feel the pain of losing that someone!But sooner or later,you will be fine!Just keep moving on and spend your vacant time having fun with your friends!Dont let yourself down and keep alone!But if you really wanted to cry,then let it out,it can wash pain sometimes!
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@trinihd (996)
• United States
15 Feb 07
The only cure is to keep busy till you forget...if you're too busy doing stuff, you won't have time to think or to obsess. Of course, she might still pop into your head now and again, but you just have to plod right on and keep focussed on moving on...if that's what you really want to do. If you are not sure you want to move on or if you think there is a chance you want to get back with her and she with you, then, I don't think anything will cure you! lol It's very hard to focus on moving on if you have not made a decision to let go.
@wesker311 (508)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
it takes time to heal a broken heart, i've been there and i've survived! you need to fight the pain so it wont eat you up and make you more depress! you just have to be strong for yourself and your family because they need you to be alive for them, be happy for them. also try spending time with your family you'll learn how supportive they are to you!
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@jelaichie (475)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
just be stroing my friend and i know everything would be put on there right places in time., i know its hard but constant prayer and keeping yourself busy., will keep your head off from that dreadful moment when you broken up... stay strong and have fun ok?!
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