What comes first - "love" or "career" ???

India
February 15, 2007 3:02am CST
For any fresh graduate, career is often the first thing that worries him..(like in mt case)...WHAT DO YOU THINK ???
6 responses
@limcyjain (3516)
• India
15 Feb 07
carrer surely comes first. How is one going to fulfil the requirements of his/ her love without having a good career. People might disagree but i feel that without a strong career you wont be able to carry on your love for long.
• India
16 Feb 07
Your opinion is quite practical ..and that's deserves applause.Love to some extent should be accomplished keeping one's career and a comfortable life in mind...Good view.
• India
15 Feb 07
Career First love next..
@xelissa (776)
• New Zealand
15 Feb 07
career would come first, love comes unexpectedly and is uncontrollable, it can come next week or in 5 years. Nature can take its course for love
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
if you really love a person, and that person loves you too, then there would be no reason for him/her to distract you from building your career. that person should be the one to motivate you and make you grow into a more responsible adult. for me, career should come first, because love is very unstable, you can never tell what's going to happen next. but in your career, everything depends on your performance and skills. you can improve your career without anyone's permission. it's all up to you. not like in a relationship wherein you have to take two sides from both of you. if it's possible to balance your relationship and career, that would be the best solution.
@eolivan (414)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
it should mostly be career first, but if your loved ones already financially stable, then you can consider love first before having a career. he/she can surely support you while making your career take off. and with moral support, you can be more inspired in pushing your career above your limits.
• Australia
15 Feb 07
at my age only being 21 my career would definetly come first. i have worked to hard to get where i am to give it up this soon. at my age the love is not garenteed to last so you are taking a big risk. i work in a law firm and i am trying to eventaly complete a law degree, this is to much to give up for love. i would hope that if i was in a relationship that the person would stick by me till i got where i wanted in my career. Also the good thing in the career that i have chosen is that if he needs to move for his career i can always go with him.