When they wont let you in?

There are some reasons why your partner won't open up to you. It's either he/she wants more privacy or simply because he/she doesn't trust you at all. It's important to build trust in a relationship. Remind him/her that you are here to listen, not just as a lover but also as a friend. Make him/her feel that you are trustworthy.

all u gta do is tell them. be there for them. they'll open up. i know i will.