Arguements! aren't they fantastic?!

So sorry you had this difficulty. Wonder why there had to be fireworks and not little arrows flying. Don't know the story so will only say ... am glad you are still here and maybe something other than drinking would have been a better choice. What is in those cardboard boxes? Glad you were right...did it get you far? Take care my friend.

I actaully do think arguments are good. they help you release feelings that you were bottling up. Now I don't think they are good if you have thme too often but once in a while they can be refreshing. With that said, I do think it sucks to have an argument on Valentines Day with your loved one. I am sorry you had to spend your Valentines Day first arguing, then sitting alone drinking. I think there is a right place and time for arguments and Valentines Day, in my opinion is not the right time. Sometimes, I guess we have to bite the bullet and just do what needs to be done to avoid an argument. It isn't really fair, but it is life. I hope things get better for you.

i hate to argue and i hate peoples moods.im a very placid person and i count to ten alot and just let things go but my crazy ex gets blazing at me over not much at all and then tells me im mental as if its my fault.sometimes i think relationships are more trouble than theyre worth

One time my wife and I had a big argument during my birthday. The whole day was miserable for me. Just like you, I was in the right too .. lotta good that did me lol. I think that there are times that even if we know we're right, we just have to think of what the cost of winning an argument will be. I know how you feel though. Sometimes it's better to just lose. As long as you patch it up quickly, who won the argument or who was right doesn't matter as much in the end.

You have celebrated Valentine's Day in a very strange way. But arguments are really part of a relationship. It is normal for partners to argue sometimes because you are two different people. You have different insights to different things. That is why compromise enter the picture. You should both learn to give ways for your partner. There is no other good way but to talk about it diplomatically. Have a talk-and-listen phase in your conversation. Hear what your partner have to say. And explain clearly your point. Let your temper subside first before you decide to talk with her again. Also, timing is important if you really want to make up to her, even it is her fault. If you really love her, you can accept her mistakes and shortcomings and vice-versa. In the first place, you are in a relationship for the reason of growing as a person. You should help each other hand in hand to improve as a much better individual. That is the real essence of having a partner, as for me.

Sorry to hear that you fell out on valentines day of all days, surley the making up was fun? x