First Love Never Dies

Philippines
February 16, 2007 4:14am CST
Do you believe in "First Love Never Dies"? How could we say that first love never dies..? This saying is such a very unconditional phrase...! i dont exactly believe in this..cause its you who well decide whether your first love is not worth to forget...or you have to continue on thinking about him..and still love him...
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@teison2 (5921)
• Norway
16 Feb 07
To me this saying means that your first love will always have a place in your heart. It does not necessarily mean that you still love him, or he's the biggest love. It just means that the first person you love will always have a special place in you. he will never be forgotten.
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• Philippines
16 Feb 07
it will definitely not die if you see him every day. BUt once you get rid of his presence, i don't mean kill him, you'll find yourself having a crush on a taller, darker, and handsomer man. After a few years and you meet your first love again, you will fall in love again. That is, if you want to convince yourself.
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@lena2000 (2392)
• Belgium
18 Feb 07
No. I believe the "I'm in love at first sight" is an illusion arising from our hormones that are urging us to mate. It is possible to be attracted to someone and sense a connection with them at first sight, but I think this only happens if you actually talk to the person. I don't think you can see some hot chick in front of you at the grocery store checkout and suddenly say, "Eureka! That's the one!" Still, conversation will reveal if you have anything in common. For instance, I recently met this guy at school whom I was instantly attracted to, and I didn't really know why. Physically he wasn't my type at all, but he seemed intelligent, and that drew me to him. I don't think this means he is my soulmate, though anything is possible. I think experiences like these are meant to help us realize what criteria we have for an ideal mate and prime us for meeting someone compatible.
• United States
16 Feb 07
i believe its never forgottten, nto that you think about him/her everyday. they might come up in your mind every blue moon. but the point is, since it was yoru first relationship, you tend to idealize it, and look back on it as being a very positive time in your life. its sad, cause im with my first love right now, and well not sure if it will withstand time.