Jealousy...How to handle it?

Philippines
February 16, 2007 8:18am CST
I'm a a really jealous person...but not to the extent that I'm nagging my husband...I do trust my husband but sometimes I can't help it...But don't take it seriously, sometimes when it strikes me I will tell my hubby about it in a nice way but after I explain it to him it will be gone...Was it just right?
3 responses
@Michele21 (3093)
• United States
16 Feb 07
I am really jealous too!! I have learned to control it though, your husband loves you or he wouldn't be with you. He chooses to be with you every day and not someone else, so take that as a sign of trust from him! I use to hate it when my hubby would talk to ano other girl, but now I know he is just talking and it isn't going to lead to flirting or anything else, just conversation.
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• Philippines
16 Feb 07
thank you very much for sharing...
@kushal24 (200)
• India
16 Feb 07
well there is no way out,some people are made like that,and i guess you are one of them.what you need to do is work on it.dont tell your husband he might not take in the right sense.just dont think about it
• Philippines
16 Feb 07
Ok thanks for the advice...
@joven222 (84)
• Philippines
16 Feb 07
Being jealous is normal for every person but this should not go behind the extent that it can be the main reason of destroying your relationship. What you have done is absolutely right. You told him what you feel in a nice way and not by nagging to him. Maybe for you to minimize the feeling of jealousy, just stick on your "trust" in him. This is the basic foundation of love.