Your wedding day! What would you do in a different way if you had the chance?

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My wedding was amazing, no doubt about it. As I am Swedish and my husband is American/Filipino he brought his family and friends over and the result was a crazy, happy weird wedding party with a mixture of american and Swedish traditions - barbeque and garland binding competition! Swedish 25 year old girls dancing with 60 something Philipino men and women! Still, there are a lot of things I would have done differently if I had the chance to; for example, I wouldn't have hired a band because that ended up taking a big chunk of the wedding money, and they only played a few songs. I also wish that I had been able to relax more and sit down and talk to people instead of running around making sure that things were going well, lighting candles, bringing out bottles, all those things that our waitressed would have done if we hadn't decided to go with cheaper inexperienced ones. Is there anything you would have done differently on your wedding if you could do it over again?