love on the internet..
By kaplya
@kaplya (1578)
India
February 16, 2007 11:41am CST
i wonder if the love started on internet could really last long? last month my sister had a break up with her boyfriend of 3 years.he lives in another city and they got to know each other through text messeges.she was constant in touch with the guy through internet and text messeges and in her opinion, shared a really deep relationship with him.for three years their "digital love" went on smoothly until last month when my sister,for her studies, moved in the same city where her boyfriend lived. she was very happy as now she could be in constant touch of the man of her life but it didn't happen actually. after only three or four meetings they found that they r feeling very awkward in each other's presence, they found no subjects to talk on (though they used to talk for hours on internet, before), they felt no such love and attraction for each other as they used to feel on internet and worst of all they started to see faults in each other!;) he was too thin, she was of a dominating nature etc. etc.
it makes one wonder if the love started on internet is just a "digital kind" of love which falls apart when it faces the realties? do the love relationships formed on internet worth at all? do they really last? what's ur opinion about the romance or love which takes place on internet? do u think they could be seen as normal kind of relationship? do u believe that they can last for the life time?
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@sid_is_crazy (135)
• India
23 Feb 07
I think love in the net is never successful as people tend to be deceptive n try to act smarter than they are ....n not meeting ne one in real life n taking decisions can be dear....mostly i would recommend not to go for it
@kaplya (1578)
• India
1 Mar 07
yes i agree with u that on the net people tend to show up the ideal side of their nature rather than real side of their personality. but still i wonder because i have seen many people around me who r in such kind of relationships and r crazy in love with their internet lover. i don't understand if it can be called a normal relationship when u have become really closed through internet with a person but have made him only once or twice...


