Do You Wish Your Ex's on their Birthday ...?

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India
February 16, 2007 7:42pm CST
i have realized tat it has been nearly 3 years now but i wish her .... on her birthday wonder if ne one else does this ......
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@chocobaby (677)
• Philippines
17 Feb 07
there is one ex who i still have maintained friendship with, i still greet him on his birthday. others who i have no communications in any way, and i don't even remember the dates.
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• Philippines
17 Feb 07
it's because that one ex has been our family friend even before he became my bf as i've been to his family too. when we ended our relationship, he did not cut off his ties with my family and so did i.
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• India
17 Feb 07
so i am not alone .. this is helping ... so this means tat it is true tat some leave an inpression so deep inside tat its hard to erase them completely ... thanx ...
@biwasaki (1745)
• United States
17 Feb 07
When I was younger, I used to do that. Now that I'm older and married and have a family of my own I don't. I think it would be disrespectful to be in contact with my exes since I'm at a different point in my life now.
@biwasaki (1745)
• United States
17 Feb 07
For me, the time just came when I realized that the relationship I was in was more important than the relationships that I had with any of my exes.
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• India
17 Feb 07
so this means tat as time comes we will know when to stop life is full of experience this is for sure .. god bless you and your family and every one .. :)
@maryannemax (12154)
• Sweden
17 Feb 07
nope. i don't communicate with any of them anymore. well, when i meet them on the malls, or anywhere, i give them a smile and sometimes small talks. i don't consider them as friends but they do still get my respect somehow. i even forget their birthdays already. and i don't text them. so, i don't really greet them anymore.
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• India
17 Feb 07
so i guess this is the best way to live ..... no turning back right thanx and nice answer... :)
@maryannemax (12154)
• Sweden
17 Feb 07
yep. sometimes, it's better that way. no turning back. i am the kind of person who tries more and see if the relationship will still work. but if after sometime, i just kept on getting hurt, i'll rather not get involved witht he same person anymore even as friends. but as i've said, i still do have respect for them somehow.
• Malaysia
17 Feb 07
well, to be very honest i did. we did wish each other birthday. actually we have different problem like no others. it's pretty complicated and that's made we still could contact and talk to each other. but, it just a wish. i still love my ex but i won't ever get back to him. you could check what hapened on us for my latest topic.
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• Philippines
17 Feb 07
well, i think a lot people do that. your still friends right... i do it also. i keep in touch with everybody once in a while.
• India
17 Feb 07
tat is gud .... keep up the gud spirit .. :)
@jassi007 (234)
• India
17 Feb 07
i dont forget to wish em every year..who know when i need to get back to them in future: )
• India
17 Feb 07
ok so u think tat it is ok to do this and they appretieate it .. is it i mean theyh don't feel bad or strange or something because we call them ... :) still gud u do it ... ? after all they were a part of our life and people whith whom we spent hours life is too valuable too loose even a single hour enjoy and remember every moment .... :)
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@anup12 (4177)
• India
17 Feb 07
I think better not to keep in touch with them.Waht happens sometimes is that keeping in touch with past sometimes makes our present a little upleasant.
• Canada
17 Feb 07
i don't with my ex's happy birthday anymore. the day they left, i quit talking to them completely. we're not friends at all anymore