up date to my friends re buttons and his kidney he lost the battle with life

@taramoon (740)
Spain
February 17, 2007 3:16am CST
To all my friends and MyLot members i would like to thank you all for your support with regards to my cat Buttons a persian aged one and a half, over the the past 7 days, upon trying everything possible to treat him for obstuction of kidney stones, known in cats called cystals. Other tests confrimed that kidney failiure had started a total irriversable situation, and putting the cat through anymore days off stress was a definate no no, so therefore we have had to make the dissicion to put him to rest on the rainbow bridge. I feel so dreadful and it's very hard trying to keep a brave face on for my two children aged 4 and 9. I feel like i've lost a baby, my house does not feel the same without him, and his toys and tree house are still here. My Buttons was adopted from our local animal shelter, which does spay all their animals but i am beginning to now wonder because before i had buttons i also had another persian called Charlie (adopted from the same shelter) who only lasted one year and died of the same kidney faliure, my two cats were identical and i am now wondering if they were breeded as kidney failiure is a hereditary illness, my vet seems to think the same, so along with saddness anger is now setting in that if they are breeding these little souls with an imminant death sentence awaiting them, my vet is going to make some inquiries and look into the matter, unfortunately over here in Spain we do not have associations like the RSPCA, there are numerous animal shelters that do a fantastic job in collecting and careing for all the strays left roaming around, and if it was'nt for these people the animals would be round up and taken to a pound in Malaga and gassed. Once again thanks for all your support and help. Tara
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@cjsmom (1423)
• United States
17 Feb 07
I am sorry as well for your Buttons...I'm glad you posted these discussions, though as I am concerned for our Taffy; I'm going to make sure that we purchase food with 3.5 or less ash content as well. CJ is so attached to the cat right now, if anything happened to it I don't know what we'd do to console him as he wouldn't understand much of what we would say to him.
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@taramoon (740)
• Spain
17 Feb 07
Oh yes do hun on the internet they recommend to buy the hills diet for all cats, i think this is a point that all us cat lovers should note about the ash factor in the food, until something sad like this happens we are unaware, when i got shopping on monday i am actaully going to take paper and pen and write down all the brands and the amount of ash they contain and post a discussion up here. My kids are besides themself over buttons and it is just so hard to put on a brave face and even harder to tell them we lost them. Thank you for your reply. xx
• United States
17 Feb 07
I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you.
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@taramoon (740)
• Spain
17 Feb 07
Thank you, i notice you are new to Mylot, so just want to say welcome and enjoy xx
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@Hamlet333 (724)
• Pakistan
18 Feb 07
hhhmmm.Sad.
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@taramoon (740)
• Spain
18 Feb 07
Yes it is thank you
@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
18 Feb 07
I am sorry to hear this losing a pet sometimes can be like losing a human or at least it has been that way to me. I hope that doing reserch on this gets results.
@taramoon (740)
• Spain
18 Feb 07
Thank you Shaun when i get to the bottom of all this i will let you all know
@ladyjava (1184)
• Malaysia
17 Feb 07
I am really sorry for your lost. It never feels right when a member of your family is gone. I have went thru similar experiences with my cats. The pain will heal with time but the memory remains forever. My prayers are with you and your family. God Bless :)
@taramoon (740)
• Spain
17 Feb 07
Thank you so much xx
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• United States
18 Feb 07
Oh, Tara, i am so sorry. THe loss of a beloved pet is never easy, especailly when you were fighting so hard for their life. i cna't even begin to tell you how sorry i am. If you need someone to talk to, send me a PM.
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@taramoon (740)
• Spain
18 Feb 07
Ahhh hun you message is so sweet thank you, at times like this you realise how many wonderful people there are out there to support you. Being on here and talking about it, is ceratainly helping in more ways than one xxx
@tater03 (1765)
• United States
18 Feb 07
I am so sorry to hear about your cat. I know what it is like to lose a pet suddenly. They become a part of the family and it is even harder when you have children. Again I am very sorry for your loss.
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@taramoon (740)
• Spain
18 Feb 07
Thank you Tater yes i think it's the suddeness of it all that is even more shocking, if you lose a cat to old age, you can kind of justify it, although it's still as hard. xx
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
17 Feb 07
my deepest condolences go with you... i know how it feel to lose your loved ones... even though it is only a cat... i lose a pet before as well when i am still a children... it is a hen... and it takes me weeks to get over it... God Bless...
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@taramoon (740)
• Spain
17 Feb 07
Thank you x
• United States
18 Feb 07
I am so sorry to hear about your kitty. I love cats more than anything, though I'd hate to see any animal suffer. I know they truly become part of the family. If it's true people are breeding these cats knowing they have a genetic illness, then I don't know what to say. That is beyond cruel!
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@taramoon (740)
• Spain
18 Feb 07
I'm making it my mision to get to the bottom of this just to put my mine as ease. Thank you for your warm wishes xx
@_hope_ (3902)
• Australia
17 Feb 07
Taramoon i`m sorry to hear your loss and i understand fully by what you are saying about it feeling as though you have lost one of your children.We become so attached to our pets that they do become part of the family and are treated accordingly.It`s a shame that you have lost both your animals to the same disease and if thats the case them the place you got him from needs to be investigated or the type of food the animals have to be addressed as this also causes kidney disease in cats.I ish you well and i feel for you and your children at your great loss
@taramoon (740)
• Spain
17 Feb 07
Yes definately hope more investigation is going to go into this i've now gone from upset to anger and it just seems very freaky, although the vet does think it is a hereditary illness, aparently kidney failure seen in cats that have a poor diet does not show until they are the ages of 5 - 7 years both my cats were exactly the sne age when i have lost them both young baby's not even a year and a half old. But like the replies to my discussion above we should all look at our cats diet i have just dragged to dried cat biscuits out of my cupboard to see what the ash count is on it...and believe it or not the count it 6.5 which is way to high and i thought i was buying the best food at the supermarket cause it was expensive and i've always thought the more you pay the better the product.... Thank you for you warm wishes xx
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
17 Feb 07
I am so sorry to hear about this, I did not see your other Post, I do know what it is like to loose a loved Animal I really do. I feel with you and I do hope that the Vet gets to the Bottom of this. I know it won't help your Pain but at least you will get your Answers.
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@taramoon (740)
• Spain
17 Feb 07
Thank you Gabs, yes i do hope i can find out more about this just so i can tell others and hopefully help them out. I will keep you all posted
@Celanith (2327)
• United States
18 Feb 07
Oh my heart goes out to you in this time of saddness. It is never easy losing a pet or anyone near and dear. I have been in your shoes a few times and lost some very special kitties in my life.
@taramoon (740)
• Spain
18 Feb 07
Thank you, yes i feel like i've lost one of my family members xx
@Melizzy (1381)
• United States
18 Feb 07
I am so very sorry for your loss. Animals, no matter how long we have them, become a part of our family. At least he is in peace now.
• United States
18 Feb 07
Tara ,I'm so sorry for your kitty.You sound like such a good mommy but he will be waiting for you at the Rainbow bridge.I know it it so hard to make that decision as I have been through that before.Even though you know you made the right decision,you still feel bad.You feel like you lost a member of the family and things just aren't the ame.Your pain will ease up with time.I hope that the vet will be able to do something.my thoughts and prayers will be with you and Buttons.
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@taramoon (740)
• Spain
18 Feb 07
Yes i know they are all on the rainbow bridge, but i just feel so empty at the moment, driving myself mad looking for him only to find he's not here i know time will ease the pain. Thank you for your prayers
• United States
18 Feb 07
I just wanted to add my condolences with the rest. I am so sorry about Buttons. It's a hard decision we have to make but I'm sure it is especially hard when your little one is so young. My prayers are with you and your family. I know it's hard now but try to remember all the happy times with Buttons. I'm sure he will be waiting for you on that Rainbow Bridge and is just having the time of his life playing there without the pain anymore.
@taramoon (740)
• Spain
18 Feb 07
Thank you very much for you condolences evreyones reply to my discussion have been so uplifting. Thank you each and everyone one of you, to ne honest you should all be denoted as the best response xx