if you were gay how would you tell the boy you like like that you like them

United States
October 13, 2006 2:10pm CST
tell how you would aprroach them and how you would take it if they reject you
1 response
@dixielol (1579)
• United States
26 Oct 06
I am a girl so I dont think I can help much. one of my bestfriends is a gay guy though. I have seen him work another guy. He just starts talking to them & then ask them if they want to go get a drink sometime. But he can tell if the guy is gay when he first meets them although I dont know how. I love gay guys they are so sweet & most of them are funny as hel1. Althogh one night when we was at a bar, he did almost get the crap beat out of him for hitting on a guy who turned out to be not so gay. I always tease him about how i had to beat up those 3 guys for him. I think it is great that you are willing to admit that you are gay. How did your parents take that? I worked with my friends mom. He came in the store about 3:00 Am when only me and her was there & told her. That was along time ago. She still says that he is not gay, he just does that to hurt her because she is very religious. It makes me so mad, there other son is a preacher so they do play favories big time. Of course, he is also a "trouble" guy. He is always in trouble over something. But since his last court date over a year ago he has been doing so good. well, sorry I dont know how to tell to approach a guy about that. But make sure he too is gay first. & watch out if it is a friend you could most likely end up loseing your friend over it.
@tvnaresh (1581)
• India
26 Oct 06
yup...
@Faye88 (1009)
• Singapore
26 Oct 06
I cannot help much either as I am a girl. This is my thoughts regarding your questions: Did you go to places that gays used to hang up like pubs etc?If there is bring that person there and tell them it is a gay's pub.Then see how they reacted.Ask them questions what do they think of gay and if there is any possibilities that they will like one?If the reaction is positive you ask how about if that person is you. That's only my suggestion.May be lame.As for if it will works--no comments on that .TRY THIS ON YOUR OWN RISK.
@Faye88 (1009)
• Singapore
26 Oct 06
As for rejections,there is nothing you can do to force them to love you.If they do love you and happen to be the same as you it will be a happy situations.If is not carry on life as usual till one came along. I know it hurt when you are rejected but that will heal.