February 17, 2007 10:05pm CST
i've a best friend. we've known each other for a year. he's so sweet to me. so nice and we're so close at past but both of us have a lover. we have similiarity. our lover was so overprotective to us so sometimes it start a fight. we always talking and sharing about our love story and somehow we begin so close... he told me that he love me and care about me. i really appreciate his feeling even though i realize that he's not in to me. i'm just happy for being a part of him. for being his best friend. he become my dearest and closest friend and now he told me that he fall in love but the girl wasn't me... he just take me as his close friend but he never meant to me... what would i do?? should i support him to reach his love?? now i can do just support him and care of him. i wish, someday he will know that i'm truly fall in love with him... am i do is right??
• New Zealand
18 Feb 07
Honey, you can't make him fall in love with you even though you love him, sad but thats how life is. Just cheer him on the sidelines and make sures he's happy. That has happened to me once and I knew I couldn't have so I had to let him go, and if he's happy then I'm happy even if I'm hurting inside (but not now, because I have a husband and love him to bits, just talking from experience)