is it OK to ask a guy out???...

Philippines
February 18, 2007 2:27am CST
Girls usually find it hard to ask guys out... despite the fact that we live in a modern world where its accepted to girls to ask guys out, we still hesitate. WHY???? is it because he'll say "NO" .. . REJECTION seems to be the #1 reason why girls refuse to ask guys out.. what do you think????
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@ratyz5 (7829)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
Well, if you're a girl and you want to ask a guy out, don't be bold enough to be frank and ask him directly, go lee way on him and put it into words that doesn't sound like your asking him out. If he replies with the inquiry that are you asking him out, he clearly has an idea and you just simply ask back, 'what do you think?' If the guys confirms his speculation, then be confident on asking, 'Well, how about it?' Its more interesting when girls puzzles guys with their gestures without really making their intentions evident.
• Canada
25 Mar 07
Probably, but I never let that get me down. If the guy says no then he's not who I'd want anyway. I'd rather him be honest from the start than to lead me down a false path and build up false hopes.
@trinihd (996)
• United States
13 Mar 07
Yes, I think rejection is the #1 reason. It is for me, I know. If I take a chance it will only be because I am almost sure what the response will be so I am prepared for it, and if it's a rejection you can be sure that I won't be taking that chance again! Guys don't make it easy either. They don't offer to take a raincheck or let a girl down easy. I guess they don't really understand how to do that. It must be a Mars-Venus thing.
• Philippines
18 Feb 07
well here in our country, asking out is the guys work and its out of the normal norm for a girl to ask a guy. i think culture has somthing to do with it too and not jsut rejection. truly culture and society norms affects our action so much and doing the other way around will consider you as deviant which is not good at all. but if you think you really like the guy and he deserves to be ask by a girl for a date then do it. it doenst matter what others will say as long as you are comfortable doing that then your fine.
@fabwisp (1328)
18 Feb 07
Some girls still think that its a guys job. Which i find rather unfair. I think the main reason is fear of rejection but this is what guys have been going through for years! I would ask a guy out if i really liked him. You don't ask you never know!