Final year syndrome.

India
February 18, 2007 3:39am CST
I am into my final year, final semester to be exact of my campus life. It is really taking a toll on me. I am very upset about it. By birthday is near and my friends already starting wishing, me and say this is the last b-day together, I am really down. I don't know how I am gonna be without my friends.
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@jyoti23 (47)
• India
18 Feb 07
dear friend , life is just like a wheel . keeps rolling with different people coming across making new relations so if u r sad to lose some , feel happy that u r going to make many more . so the best advice is have a good rapport with old as well as new friends.
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• India
18 Feb 07
These quotes look good when saying. But in reality very hard to practice. I am not teasing you, I said the very same words to someone last year. Now, I am myself in the same situation and could not see any sense in the saying.
@cuterat (296)
• India
18 Feb 07
Dont worry dear.These are all part of ones life.We have to leave the college at some point of time.Leaving college doesnt mean the end of your friendship.If your friends are true enough, you will have contacts with them.
• India
18 Feb 07
I am sure that I have the best friends anyone could even think of and I am sure they will always be with me wherever I go, but I am going to miss the college environment, the shades, classrooms, the bunking etc.
• India
18 Feb 07
yeah..tell me abt it...i think u already had a discussion abt missin friends after this..u gear up urself..dats the only thing u can do to feel better..u may miss them..actually sayin..u'll miss being in college with them..nothn else..its all in da game..am over the same thing too..i dont feel too bad abt it..perhaps am worried abt other crappy things..lol..
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@anonymili (3138)
18 Feb 07
I understand how you must be feeling, as era is coming to an end, that of you spending time with people you've become very close to whilst studying for your degree. I feel there is a certain fear factor with you too. Many people get scared towards the end of their full time education because they'll be facing the big bag world of full time employment and there's a lot of pressure on to find a good job with a decent company. This is quite natural - my company only employs graduates and I've spoken to my colleagues and other colleagues over the years about how they felt when leaving uni and starting their first job. They ALL felt some sense of apprenhension about being a REAL grown up for the first time, if that makes sense? If you can't bear to be parted from friends, who said you have to? In this day and age of technology, email is the easiest and cheapest way to stay in touch. You have a phone, you can call them whenever you need a chat. You can all organise to have a reunion every few months or every year OR you can try to look for jobs which are based near where your best friends are going to be? I hope this has helped and I would advise that many of the friends you make in university can and will be friends for life as long as you and they make the effort to keep the friendship alive. Good luck :)
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• India
18 Feb 07
Yeah, I know that just because this is fun, this can't be life. You have to move ahead. Just because a kid is cute, we can't expect it to be a kid for years, it would grow up to a man, same is the case here. But, the thing is I am not able to come over it.
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