why do men act this way

Ok well if you want an honest answer to your question from a man here it is but you probably won't like it. I think its very unfair that your topic states all men are cheaters and so. It might be like that with the men you have met in life but have you never heard the saying that "nice guys always come in last"? Maybe you have over looked all the nice guys you could have had to be with. All I know its unfair to class us all as dogs because your boyfriend or boyfriends have cheated on you in the past or hurt you. I cannot explaing why your boyfriends have treated you like that but I never disrespect my girlfriend in any way shape or form and like I said IM A GUY.

You know, I don't think there ever could be an explanation to that. "Men will be men". I understand where you are coming from though, its irritating huh? Men are pigs, thats my logic lol. I think they just like the thrill, and the attention I mean they have the one they love but they just like throwing themselves out there to other woman "just because". If there really is an answer to that, I would like to know too! lol. Don't worry about it though, no matter how dumb they will act with other women they always come home to the one they love, and don't think twice about the others.

When any partner, male or female, cheats, flirts, is somehow unfaithful physically or emotionally to their partner, it is because they don't think they're getting what they need at home, though their partner may be doing her/his best, and don't want to talk about it or want to avoid it, or because they think they can "have their cake and eat it too," have a nest to come home to, but still go out and play with others.

Why do men cheat?....because it's fun! kidding Seriously, I've never cheated nor would it be something I ever consider doing. As far as hitting on other women, I have a hard time answering this because I've never thought or considered doing it. When I'm with a woman, I am mentally, physically with that woman 100%. In fact my ex would always send dirty text messages with other guys she worked with, and I found that to be very childish & disrespectful to me because I would never do that with other women. I'm going to stop there because I get worked up when I talk about that stupid $%^&@.... I'm really a nice guy though, but you can understand my frustration with her. Believe me, she does a lot more stupid now, other than that. No responsibility with our kids etc.... Ok, I'm done.

The problem is that you are in a relationship with the wrong men. There are plenty of men who do not do these things. There are men who treat their significant other with respect. There are men who would never think of cheating. There are romantic men. Raise your standards. You have to believe you are worthy (and you certainly are) of having a relationship with a great loving man. Don't make the mistake of judging all men by the poor standards of the men you have had in your life. They are the minority, I believe. I know there are many respectful and romantic men available. Don't give up on finding one of them, they are out there.

I don't know why some men act that way, but I have a question for you. Why do you stay with someone who acts that way? There are decent men out there who have more manners than to whip their head around to stare at every girl that walks past, so why waste your time on one of the other kind? If I were you, I would give him one more chance. Tell him what you think of this kind of behavior, and that you don't intend to put up with it any more, and then keep your word. He might be surprised to find out it bothers you this much and decide to clean up his actions before you have to leave. Good luck.

well at least us men if we do it we do it in front of the ones we love. even we don't know why we do it maybe its because we want to shock you to see what you would do. would you say something to us to straighten us out or would you pay us back by flirting while were there to see what we would do. guarantee you ladies we would not like it if you turned it around on us for men are a jealous breed. go figure were the jealous breed if you do it but if we do its supposed to be ok... maybe we are just a bunch of unfeeling pigs that don't deserve the love of a good woman...