love thy neighbour.......

@jeggie (99)
February 18, 2007 8:33pm CST
In the news today, it says that a man has been found dead in front of his tv. But he has been dead for a whole year! The neighbours just thought he was in hospital. If you hadn't seen your neighbour in a while, what would you do? Would you go check on them, or would you just presume they are alright and not bother 'interferring' with them. Are you close with your neighbour? Has it got to the point now, that we can't look to our neighbour for help, or trust that they would be there for us or look out for us? I was just wondering what people's view was on this?
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• United States
19 Feb 07
I guess for me, it would depend hon how close I was to this neighbor. If I saw him every day at around the same time letting the dog out or watering the lawn, if we said "HI" to each other every day, I would have been knocking on the door after several days and then contacting the police just to be safe. BUT...if it was a person that I didn't see but here and there every blue moon, then I probably would not be too concerned. Where was this man's family? Does he not have anyone who checks in on him? That poor soul.
@jeggie (99)
19 Feb 07
he was found in long island new york by someone who was checking a report of a burst waterpipe. It didn't have anyone who checked on him, even though his neighbours knew he had diabetes and was blind, they just assumed he wasn't there.
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• United States
19 Feb 07
that's horrible...with those circumstances, I would have definately tried to check on the guy if he were my neighbor. Poor man.
@sasklily (240)
• Canada
19 Feb 07
I read this, as well, and thought how very sad. In my neighborhood we're not close but stop and chat if we're out and about, walking by or doing yard work. Winter time here is difficult to keep track of neighbors as we're not out much, except getting into vehicles to shop or go to work. A couple of years ago, I was away for 3 months and my son had a few friends in. My neighbor got in touch with my other son to ask if I was here and mention about the friends over. They were not making nusiances of themselves, he just wanted to check. We appreciated that and it's nice to know that we do keep out a watch for each other. This is a small city in a farming district, so maybe that has a bearing on it. Possibly in larger cities people are a little more distant.
@jeggie (99)
19 Feb 07
it is good that you have a good relationship with your neighbours. We have 3 bungalows opposite our house, all of which house elderly residents. we do check on them, and make sure everything is alright, and on one occasion one of the ladies fell and hurt herself. fortunately my mum was there to help, but if she was in the situation of that poor man, it could have been a different story. I think, like you say, a smaller community tends to be closer, whereas in the cities, everyone seems to be a lot more guarded and distant. I think it is due to the different lifestyles and attitudes in the cities. Thanks for your post