Im so nervous!

United States
February 18, 2007 10:57pm CST
For the past few weeks there has been this guy at the bowling alley I go to every sunday. Every single week we make small glances at each other through out the couple hours we're there. I really think he's cute. We've noticed each other, and made the signals that we've noticed each other looking lol. This week was sooooo embarrassing. So what happened was it started out like every other week, looking at each other, but this week I was thinking hard about weather I wanted to make move or not. I had written down my phone number on a napkin and put it under my purse and for like an hour I debated on giving it to him, how to do it if i decided to... what techniques to use and stuff like that. So, I went to use the bathroom and came back and noticed it was gone. I didn't remember If I had thrown it away or not, and was pretty sure I didn't. So i was searching for like an hour for it, and the whole time noticed him looking at me a lot more than usual. My sister, finding this funny, is talking to her mother-in-law. Found out shortly after that she took it from under my purse, and gave it to her mother-in-law to give to him. He has my phone number... and I am so nervous right now. I kinda hope he calls, but with my nerves all like this, I also kinda hope he doesn't because I dont know what I'd say. Before I left, as I was walking by, he was with his friends, and he was all like, "Have a nice day!" and stuff... I think I gave off the impression that I didn't want anything to do with him, 'cause I just smiled and walked by, trying hard not to turn red. I don't know what to do, im so nervous!!
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• Philippines
19 Feb 07
if i were you, i'd take some time to breathe, and everything is just as the way you planned it to be. just take some time to think about the situation and i'm sure that the big catch will be there just any moment soon. don't be too nercous because when nervous is in the way, it'll just screw everything from the way you talk and your self composure which i think is very important for a good start. so, good luck to you girl! we girl surely rules!
• United States
19 Feb 07
Nervous always seems to get in the way of most things that I want to happen. :s I am breathing alright, just... what makes me nervous is weather he will call or not...
@limosonia1 (1559)
• United States
19 Feb 07
Breathe everything will be just fine. If he calls play it cool go out and get something to eat. If he doesn't pretend it didn't bother you. I am sure he knows you weren't blowing him off since somebody else gave him your phone number he probably knows that you are nervous. I am sure he will call
• United States
19 Feb 07
If he calls I'm most likely going to be a mess if we do anything. I think I'll make a fool out of myself at least twice. lol. One time I tripped around a guy I liked, and he picked on me the whole entire rest of the time we were together that night. I suppose your right about the whole "he probably knows that you are nervous" deal... I hope that he calls... or texts me... anything to let me know that he is interested.