break up

February 19, 2007 11:16am CST
ok a friend of mine doesnt know where she stand with her boyfriend they have been 2gether forr 3 years. and every valentine day he blows her out she spend on him each yr with card and gift and him he buy her 2 days later just no on valentine day, also he only visit her every few months, but she put up with it coz they have know eachother for a very long time. and when he does come round he only spend a few hour and goes home, she doesnt know where he live. he fone every day, just dont spend much time with her, and she is always at home, waiting for to come round but he doesmt. she ended up pregnant with me as well in 2005 but she lost it via misscarriage. he was angry and crying when she told him she was pregnant, he came round in the end and moved in with her. she even told me he cryed, bbut at 3 months was when she m/c. but he moved out after a month living 2gether. what should she do with this man should she finish with him or stay, i told her to go out and find another man
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@justreal (2366)
• Canada
19 Feb 07
She should totally forget about him. He seems that he doesn't want to commit to her and it's a while they're together and there is nothing serious, it's not worth it. What is he keeping her for back up? No I'm sorry she should throw him away.
19 Feb 07
i agree but she wont listen coz he has even asked her 2 marry him and silly her told himyes, she just won see the light thank you for advice
@simran1430 (1793)
• India
4 Mar 07
Don't in any way make them feel like the breakup is their fault. Let them leave the relationship believing it was a poor fit between the two of you.Honestly answer any questions about the breakup. Don't be nasty. Remember, they're a nice guy or girl.