if you marry with person you hate, may time change you?
• United States
20 Feb 07
I could never marry someone I don't like. I don't think marriage is a crap shoot. Role the dice and maybe things will work maybe they wont. It is better if you love the person you are planning to spend the rest of your life with. Unless you are planning a divorce in the near future. I have heard stories of couples marrying stangers and they are still married but they are far and few in between. When you marry it should be for love and forever. That is just my opinion.
20 Feb 07
I think we can learn to love a person if we concentrate on the good sides of her or him. If we learn to like ourselves it is easier to like other people too. We can build up self respect and in time we will find out that it is easier to respect others too. Why not write down at least one good thing you find in her every day. And remember to tell her often that you like her and why. You will soon see some great changes for the better in both of you.