need some help
By lols189
@lols189 (4742)
February 19, 2007 7:04pm CST
i have a big problem here. i have a friend who my boyfriend does NOT like because she smokes drugs and she is not a really nice girl in any way or form. recently i moved house and i told her where i lived by mistake as my mouth let it slip. my boyfriend and her boyfriend have the same friend and she showed the boy where we lived. he didnt know where we live until she opened her mouth. this boy is meant to be coming down to our house next week and now he knows where we live because of her. i am very worried as my boyfriend will ring this boy and give him directions but the boy will say stacey told me. (this is the girl by the way). if my boyfriends finds out she knows where i live then he is gonna go mental and this will cause big problems for me. can anyone please help me for ideas how she got my address?? i cant say i give it to her as i will get SCREAMED at and other things possibly worser. all peoples responses will be rated. thanks in advance
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@marlyse (1056)
• Switzerland
8 Mar 07
i undersytand your dilemma lols, but i have to agree to wonderlander. its your bf's problem, not yours. try to talk calm with him and explain it, why you slipped. that happanes to all of us, nobody is perfect. if he starts screaming and more, go out of the hous, tell him you go for a walk and you are back when he calmed down. thats what i do here with my kids, and i always did it when it came to hot discussions.
i wish you luk lols and here are some hugs for you ;-)
@xXmeganxX (4421)
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10 Mar 07
well done marlyse great advice there dear hehe rated
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@heatspine (1141)
• Philippines
8 Mar 07
can't honesty bail you out? you can just say that you slipped. if that merits screaming ... or worst ... then maybe you should have second thoughts because your bf isn't as good natured as he think he is.
@senses (840)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
Wow, you are in between big rocks, a friend or the lover?
I know taht if you will explain it to your boyfriend that your friend hneed guidance then he will understand and try to help you. Instead of telling you not to be her firend anymore, your boyfriend might help your friend, both of you, to renew her life and bring her back to the right path, and bring her closer to God!
@MarkyB21 (1545)
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12 Mar 07
You seem to rely on your bf sorting out your friends so I think it would be a good idea to tell him that you've let your address slip to this girl before he finds out another way. When you tell him you could ask him to help you sort things out so that she doesn't visit - even though he'll be annoyed for a bit he should be able to accept that you made a mistake and came to him straight away about it.
If you don't tell him the truth he'll still find out and be more annoyed about it.
