What do you prefer, wild or peaceful relationship?

@geejoy (344)
Philippines
February 19, 2007 7:30pm CST
well, when i say wild, it means, you surely experience ups and downs in your relationship, the love is really on its highest intensity but then coupled with love will be other emotions such as jealousy on its peak......well, on the other hand, peaceful relationship will mean, fights are seldom, emotions are controlled.....the love is moderate in intensity.....well, in my case, since im in mid 20s already.....im actually in a peaceful relationship.....i experienced wild relationship when i was young...maybe that's really the tendency when you are young coz young people are energetic....what do you think?
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• United States
20 Feb 07
love doenot exist.when we love somebody,we love ourselves in finding in the other the traits and signs we dont have..we feel perfect then by adding to what we need from him or her.we satisfy our narcissis.now, wild or peaceful are our desires to satisfy..it is different.eventhough love and desire never end or satisfied completely..
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@geejoy (344)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
well, good point..a couple complement each other...filling up the gaps......for them to be complete...
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• United States
20 Feb 07
Well, you could be right. Young people's relationships could turn wild because they're active. I also think that a relationship could also be wild (whether young or old) when the couple are having irreconcilable differences and immaturities which then lead to a lot of misunderstandings, arguments, and fights. If I would be given a choice, I want a combination of both wild and peaceful. I want a little bit of adventure and excitement in the relationship which couldn't be there when it's always peaceful. There is a need for a certain spark.
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@geejoy (344)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
in some way, you are correct...sparks are needed for a stable relationship....excitement is one factor that will help a couple be active and not boring in their relationship
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
i would rather have a peaceful one...wild relationships seems no love existing but thats the way they express their love, well!!
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
I want a peaceful relationship. Of course, fights, arguments and misunderstandings are inevitable, but I like it to be rather brought up and settled in a dignified manner. What I mean is, whenever quarrels arise, both must be dignified in defending their side of the story and proper logic must be existent and prevalent. Both partners must fight as humans, not as barbaric animals or untamed creatures.