Would you rather live with a person whom you loved? or ...
By coolsid2007
@coolsid2007 (1030)
India
February 20, 2007 3:21pm CST
What would you prefer... would you like to live your entire life with a person whom you love or with a person who loves you?
Let me put it this way !! do you expect perfections in a relationship ... or do you compromise to meet at the common end... and does any of this affect your eventuall life?
3 responses
@konduru (103)
• United States
21 Feb 07
Really a tough question to answer....bcoz life will be difficult if the person who u love will not love u but u change him by your behaviour. in other way without having any feelings on the person who loves u ....u cant lead a happy life with him.
@Corrine11 (90)
• United States
20 Feb 07
I would rather live with a person that I love. Why? I would have to think about it and get back to you. But how is that a compromise. Maybe a better question is, "Would you live with someone or commit to someone whom you knew, you loved more than they loved you?
@coolsid2007 (1030)
• India
21 Feb 07
Compromise definately plays a big role!!! How? - simple ... if you love some person, probably the chances are that he/she has everything you are looking for!! but that might not be the same case with the person who loves you more!! he might not have many things that you like but rather he would be ready to change himself for what he loves... and that is you!!
in simple words!! if you marry a person whom you love you will have to cultivate your love in his heart and change him... that is expect others to change for us
where as in case where you marry to a person who loves you, you will have to cultivate your love in your love and change your outlook at him/her!! ... that is expect ourselves to change for us/him
we are much more in control of emotions when we marry to a person who loves us!! which is not the case otherwise!!
hope you got the point !!!
@kalpan_vasa (324)
• India
21 Feb 07
I truly believe, "Its better to change yourself rather than expecting others to change the way you want them to"
so, I would surely like to live my life with the person who loves me. Because, I know I could compromise on my part and change myself to adjust accordingly. At the same time it is comperatively difficult to change others according to your expectation.
Its better to wear "Chapples" and save your feets to get spoil from dirty earth rather than carpetting the entire earth.
