is their such a thing as true love?

United States
February 20, 2007 4:15pm CST
hello everyone now on question is, is their really true love? now unfortunately i am coming out of a year+ long relationship =( and it really sucks now i have the hope that we will get back together b/c we did it once when we first started 4 years ago then took a year break saw each other then started again but now we were going out of it and this time it hurts even more so if there is true love i should wait again for her correct? or should i just give up on the idea of love and put other things in front of it?? i am really interested in your responses!!
3 responses
@sgshetti (30)
• India
26 Feb 07
let me ask all you guys one simple quetion.if you had many lovers in the past,there will be only one which you can call your true love,right?.similarly friend there is always a true love,totally out of the world with no conditions,barriers,caste,creed,religion,no expectations-just pure unconditional love
@galatea (686)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
well, lets see. there is such a thing as true love. i'll just share. there's this one guy that i've known for so long and all through our lives we have been keeping in touch, comparing lifenotes etc. at times when we had relationships, they would question our friendship, get jealous and stuff. it came to a point that we almost, almost committed ourselves to each other. the thing is that, even if we know that what we have is love and that it would be great to be together, we have to admit that it would not work. for some reasons that i should not list here. but they are valid reasons. so there, the point is that your true love might not be the one you'll end up with. i suggest before everything, every memory, every thought of what you had together, before all the good things get spoiled by bitter emotions, regrets, harsh words and all else, just let the relationship go. cherish what you had. thank each other for the good ride and wish each other luck with life.
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
yup, there is such thing as true love. your decision really depends on how much you love her and how far would you go for her. i think being busy might entertain you as of the moment making you forget the problem but someday you have to face it again. I think communication and confrontation is the best approach before you do anything else.