Do you trust all your friends ?
February 21, 2007 2:10am CST
in relationship especially friendship sometimes i feel confuse with myself. i mean when we have friends and we trust our friend in everything, we share all our problem, tell them what we didnt tell to someone else but suddenly they changes 180 degree. they betray and getting different day by day. i don't know what is in their had. we trust them but they betray us, thats very sucks. what doyou think?
21 Feb 07
Your friends are your worst enemies! that's why i dont really believe in 100% trust. i dont share my weaknesses and dark side to anyone even my friends coz this can be use against me. This is a reality that we have to accept. But then for those who is willing to risk it all in the name of friendship and love, i salute them for the courage. I admit i have less friends and less enemies too because i dont really connect to people easily. I have a very very thick outer shell. Thatz also why my friends confidently confide their secrets to me. Because they feel that im like a vault. With those secrets in my head... there was never a time that i divulge any of those. Simply because i value TRUST so much and i dont want to destroy the trust of my friends towards me. Dont trust... but be trusted!
21 Feb 07
real friendship for me takes a long time to develop. it takes time for me to call someone a friend. because i believe friendship is something that is prooven and not just something given to anyone whom you think can make you laugh or give you something. those laughters might just be for socialization purposes and whatever given might require replacements. i don't see friendship that way. of course, it has to be mutual however, not to the point that most events and acts are more into motives rather than from one's heart. this is what i see in most people that are so called friends. i have a friend (if that is how she also feels for me inside, which i am beginning to doubt)whom i give all the understanding to, will still turn out to abuse me one way or another, taking advantage of my kindness and our friendship. thus, not all those so called friends are trustworthy after all.
21 Feb 07
I know it is hurtfull to have a betrayal friend. But I dont think you should give up and judge everyone else are the same type as your friend. A true friend will stand by you in happiness and sadness. Especially in sadness, a really true friend is being tested. You may got hurt by this incident, but you have to have full trust to your new friend. I know it seems really hard thing to do, but without trust you could not build a friendship.