What should the man react when confronted by his wife about his past.

@filchi (291)
Netherlands
February 21, 2007 3:30am CST
Past is past and i agree we have to move on, but isnt it should be more nice to open up with your mate before marrying to each other? After 4 years you will find out that you are already the 3rd wife and you learned it fr other people,then you confronted your husband, he is the one who gets mad at you without knowing how bad you are feeling finding it out.He did not even comfort you. It seems he is still to proud not to talk to you.What can you say?
2 responses
• United States
22 Feb 07
I know that it is quite bad about finding the truth from other people but then if you are happy and content with your relationship right now, then just forget about the issue. It would be hard but what you have to be concern is the present. As long as he is loyal and faithful to you now, the past doesn't matter because it happens when you haven't met yet. We all might have something in our past that we are not able to open up with our mates but the most important is the present. Don't dwell on the past but be concern about the present and look forward to the future. Goodluck and I know everything will be allright.
@filchi (291)
• Netherlands
22 Feb 07
You are correct but he had lots of lies and betrayal, you cannot talk to him about anything...marriage is falling, kids are not happy as well as mom.
• India
21 Feb 07
nice , how can u say Past is Past ,,it become histroy ,, some short of mystroy No doubt ,,naturally there is a lot of place to get mad have fun whatever u have
@filchi (291)
• Netherlands
22 Feb 07
yeah right but the wife is really a serious with her duty and responsibilities at the house and to the kids.BUt isnt it that it is really nice that the guy will at least say sorry and give comfort and feel sorry of what he didnt told you about?